Posts Tagged ‘Attorney-Client Relations’

Attorneys acting too clever in assisting clients to repudiate an agreement

Recently, and for only the second time in my career, an opposing party attempted to repudiate a family court agreement that he or she had properly executed.  In the first instance the opposing party claimed she was “coerced” into entering the agreement.  In this new instance the opposing party claimed she was unaware of how [...]

Why I no longer accept service of rules to show cause

Yesterday two different attorneys asked me about accepting service on behalf of a client for rules to show cause.  While I will routinely accept service of pleadings (with my client’s permission, of course) I’ve determined it’s unsafe for an attorney to accept service of a rule to show cause on behalf of a client and [...]

Pulled inexorably into disaster

Life is competitive–survival-of-the-fittest and such–and lawyers are among the more competitive life forms.  We don’t like to lose and we especially don’t like to lose big.  Yet, no matter how good an attorney is, occasionally we find ourselves handling a situation in which disaster looms with little the attorney can do can prevent it.  In [...]

I’m the attorney; not the babysitter

I had an opposing attorney call me this morning asking if my client’s plans had changed since yesterday.  When we confirmed her plans  the previous day I reminded her to let me, and the opposing party, know if her plans changed.  I hadn’t heard from her since,  so I told opposing counsel that her plans [...]

Worst client ever?

Someone sent me this on facebook. In under 3 ½ minutes this animator hits on every way a child custody client can make an attorney miserable. Warning vulgar.

Expressing scepticism about clients’ (and potential clients’) cases

I shared a recent blog with a past client I highly praised in the penultimate paragraph.  I was somewhat taken aback when she responded with mostly warm regards but also with, “I’ll never forget two of the days we worked together – the first day when your skepticism of my case was very apparent….”  I [...]

Hell hath no fury…

I tell my divorce clients that I cannot make them happy; I can only get them to a place in which they can pursue happiness.  I actually feel somewhat proud to be an American every time I take someone who’s been unhappy in his or her marriage and free them from that burden.  After all, [...]

We are raising our grandchildren’s parents

One of my insights in the second family law article I ever had published was“[a]lways recognize (and remind your client) that a custody case is one of those rare lawsuits when it is legitimate to change the facts.”  What I meant by that was in custody cases, a parent can, during the litigation process, alter [...]