Posted Saturday, October 6th, 2012 by Gregory Forman

Twenty years experience shows that there’s some validity to Robert Rosen’s jaundiced view of guardians ad litem in private custody cases, best expressed by the title of one of his articles for South Carolina Lawyer: “Getting Rid of the GAL: How to Save Your Client from Those Expensive, Unnecessary Officious Intermeddlers.”  As Rosen’s article notes:

I have rarely been involved in a custody case in which the GAL contributed anything except to the cost. That contribution is usually significant. This is not to say that guardians cannot be useful. Of course, they can be, and there are undoubtedly some cases which guardians have helped settle or have given useful advice. But, the same would be true in a wreck case or a medical malpractice case. If there were a guardian involved, he or she could also give some useful advice to both the plaintiff and the defendant. In general, GALs merely add another lawyer with another hourly rate to talk to the same witnesses, sit at the same depositions and present an opinion which is usually as valuable (as lacking in value) as the opinion of the lawyer for the wife or the lawyer for the High School. Many times their opinions are worthless. GALs add nothing to the litigation except another batch of subjective opinions based on their own childhood experiences, their own marriage(s) and children and their own view of the world. Family court lawyers admit all this privately to each other, while they pander to and praise GALs who are on their side….

It is, therefore, my unshakeable belief that avoiding a guardian ad litem is an important service to your client because: (1) it saves money; (2) does away with another wild card in the case; (3) is one less person to have to listen to, accommodate, humor and deal with; and (4) and most importantly, the GAL can always recommend against your client, which is usually fatal, as judges generally place entirely too much value on their “impartial” recommendations

While I agree with many of Rosen’s criticisms of guardians, I believe there are some tasks a guardian is uniquely qualified and useful to perform in child custody cases.  Unlike the parents’ attorneys or the family court judge, a guardian can go into both parents’ homes multiple times to observe the living situation and to observe parent-child interaction.  A guardian can ask the parents to answer questions about the incidents and disputes that come up in most custody cases and expect honest answers (and note a party’s failure or refusal to answer).  A guardian can meet with the children multiple times and develop an understanding of their concerns and wishes.  A guardian can observe the child with third-party care givers and provide (assumably unbiased) observations on the child’s level of comfort with such care givers.

Some guardians do excellent work investigating and reporting on important custody issues that the court would otherwise have imprecise or inaccurate knowledge.  However some guardians do slipshod work: developing a clear dislike of one party that colors every aspect of their investigation and report or failing to investigate important issues that they are in the best position to analyze

We can think of such guardians as going rogue.  Their reports will be neither impartial nor balanced but the court rarely has a good basis to discount or ignore them.  Further, especially when working with a guardian for the first time or with an inexperienced guardian, it is impossible to predict when a guardian will do a thorough, impartial job and when a guardian will “go rogue.”  Complaining about a guardian’s unfavorable testimony or report at the time of trial is often treated by the court as a symptom of the party’s unhappiness with the guardian rather than as the guardian’s failure to be thorough and impartial.  Thus one needs to employ strategies that demonstrate a guardian’s (potential) inadequacies at the beginning of the case rather than waiting until the end of the case to develop the attack.

Sometimes when I am the guardian the only communication I initially receive from a parent’s attorney is the client’s contact information and the paperwork that client has filed with the court.  More typically I will get a list of witnesses the attorney wants me to talk to.  Rarely will I get a listing of the actual investigation the attorney and parent would like me to undertake.  The witness list will sometimes include folks like teachers, coaches, counselors and care providers but often it’s a list of friends and family.  Everyone–the judges, the attorneys, the guardian–assumes such friends and family will say favorable things about the parent and if one wants the judge to know that these friends and family like the client the way to do that is to call them as witnesses at trial.  Most guardians neither want or need an investigation to determine that a parent’s friends and family think well of him or her.

A witness-based investigation request isn’t completely worthless but it’s not very useful and cannot be used to subject a guardian to later claims of incompetence, incompleteness or bias.  If I am asked why I didn’t talk to a number of a party’s friends or family members, I can easily defend the attack by answering:

I wanted to be careful with the parties’ resources by not spending time investigating undisputed issues.  I read their affidavits.  I saw they liked their friend/family member.  From their affidavits, they did not appear to have spent a significant amount of time with the child(ren) [I often interview friends and family members on request if their affidavit shows they spent substantial time with the child(ren)] and I didn’t see that they had much else to add.

The key to being able to show a guardian’s investigation is incomplete or biased is to provide the guardian clear written guidelines at the beginning of the case of what issues one’s client would like the guardian to investigate.  I call this an “issue based,” as opposed to “witness based,” investigation.  Obviously the issues one will ask the guardian to investigate are those that one expects the investigation will uncover information favorable to the client and unfavorable to the opposing party.  In asking a guardian to investigate a particular issue I might ask the guardian to do certain tasks or talk to certain witnesses.

For example, in a case in which the opposing party claims that my client interferes in his relationship with their child because she simply doesn’t respect the role of fathers, I might ask the guardian to talk to the father of one of her other children.  The portion of my issue-based investigation request might read as follows:

One of the issues in this case is whether my client is unduly resistant to the other parent’s relationship with the child.  My client has another child with another father and she and that father get along well.   I would ask you to meet with and speak to this father, and, if possible, speak to her other child at that father’s house.  We would ask your report to include an analysis of her co-parenting with this other father.

Another example is a custody case in which my client is seeking joint or sole custody in part based on a claim that he has successfully co-parented an older child with a different parent.  My request to the guardian might read as follows:

One of the reasons my client believes he should get joint or primary physical custody is his excellent track record of parenting another, older child.  We would ask you to meet with and speak to the mother of this child and to their child.  We would ask your report to include an analysis of his track record as a co-parent.

It is important to conclude the written communication to the guardian with the following language:

I am assuming that you agree the investigation I am asking you to undertake is relevant to understanding and advocating the child(ren)’s best interests and I therefore will expect you to undertake the investigation I propose.  If there is any part of this requested investigation that you are uncomfortable undertaking or believe is not useful to understanding the child(ren)’s best interests, please indicate in writing which portions of this investigation you are unwilling to undertake so that my client and I can determine whether further action is necessary.  If I do not hear back from you I will assume that you have no issue undertaking the investigation I propose and will do so.

The reason for concluding with such language is that it pushes the guardian towards either undertaking the investigation you propose or subjecting the guardian to a cross examination that will undermine the guardian’s report and testimony.  If the guardian indicates he or she is unwilling to undertake a portion of the investigation one proposes, one can then move to remove the guardian due to his or her unwillingness to undertake a thorough investigation (this assumes that the investigation the guardian is unwilling to undertake is not excessive and is material to understanding the child(ren)’s best interests).  If the guardian simply fails to investigate one of the important enumerated issues, one can use this written communication to the guardian to develop an effective cross examination:

Q. You received this communication from me early in the case asking you to investigation the following issues:

Q. That communication asked you to inform me in writing if you were unwilling to do this

Q. You never informed me in writing that you were unwilling to do this

Q. You would agree that this issue is important to understanding the best interests of the children [assuming this is the case, you really don’t care how the guardian answers this: if the guardian admits it, it strengthens your position; if the guardian denies it, the guardian appears inept]

Q. You have failed to investigate this issue

Q. Your report fails to address this issue

Q. My request further indicates the steps I suggested you undertake to investigate this issue

Q. You didn’t undertake any of these steps

Q. Your investigation is incomplete [again, you don’t really care how the guardian answers this: an admission strengthens your position; a denial makes the guardian appear inept]

Q. In failing to investigate an issue important to my client, your investigation is biased against my client

Q. In failing to inform me in writing that you were not going to undertake this investigation, you prevented me from taking action to remedy this problem while the case was ongoing

Q. This failure again prejudiced my client

There are some cases in which a guardian may investigate an issue but do a very haphazard or one-sided job of investigating or reporting.  Assuming that there is minimal evidence supporting the guardian’s conclusion and substantial evidence undermining it, an effective cross examination script might be as follows:

Q. I asked you to investigate the following issue:

Q. You investigated that issue and found as follows:

Q. You’ve heard the testimony and seen the evidence elicited so far at trial.

Q. You would acknowledge that the only testimony and evidence supporting your position is as follows:

Q. You would acknowledge the following testimony and evidence contradicts your position:

Q. Wouldn’t you agree that the greater weight of the evidence is contrary to your report [an admission is unlikely but extremely helpful; a denial subjects the guardian to inferences of incompetence or bias]

At the time of a contested trial, one party is routinely unhappy with the guardian’s report and testimony, and the court expects that party to attack the guardian.  This cross examination script enables an attorney to demonstrate that the client’s request to discount the guardian’s recommendations is not based on an unfavorable report but based on an incomplete, incompetent or biased investigation.  A judge is much more likely to discount the guardian’s testimony and report if one can demonstrate incompetence, incompleteness or bias.

The best way to undermine a guardian who’s “gone rogue” is start with an understanding of what you believe the guardian needs to investigate that would support your client’s position.  This involves both highlighting the client’s strengths (and the opposing party’s weaknesses) and undermining the client’s weaknesses (and the opposing party’s strengths).  Then develop a record that will lead to a conclusion of guardian bias or incompetence if the guardian either fails to undertake this investigation or does so inadequately.  Doing so enables one to effectively attack the guardian without it being perceived of as yet another attorney who is merely unhappy with the guardian because the guardian is not supporting the client’s position.

This strategy cannot undermine every unfavorable guardian: there’s many cases in which the guardian’s investigation accurately uncovers a number of problems with one’s own client or simply determines the other parent has more strengths.  Other cases might involve an honest difference of opinion as to what the actual facts show.  However, for a guardian who simply is one sided and refuses to investigate or acknowledge one’s client’s good points, or the opposing party’s bad points, this strategy is the most effective one I’ve seen.

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(180) Comments

MJ Goodwin

October 8, 2012 at 12:50 pm

You should teach this at the January CLE. It is a good topic. It is very difficult to impeach a GAL, even if you have specified the investigation you want. I find this to be even more true in abuse and neglect cases. The lay Guardians are sometimes (perhaps unconsiously) given a sort of "demi-god" status by the Court. I have had numerous situations where the GAL was the only party not in agreement on a DSS case. In one very egregious case, the GAL could not support her position and had not done even a merely sufficient investigation. She simply ran out to the house the day before Court. She just "felt" certain things. And the Court did not approve the agreement. Nightmare stuff.

MJ Goodwin

November 5, 2012 at 11:53 am

In discussing this with some colleagues today, it occurred to me that the GAL could also use a letter like this to outline what issues the parties would like investigated. While I would not focus on those identified issues only, I do think that it would be helpful and might help prevent those situations in which you get to trial and one or both sides asserts that the GAL "did not do anything."

Ted

March 12, 2014 at 12:00 pm

I am having difficulties with my GAL. I do believe and can prove I think she is biased in my case. She is not fully investigating things in my case and it really hurts. Our judge said in court that if we were to take it to trial being unhappy with the GAL's recommendation/decision, he would 9/10 times go with what the GAL suggested. Pretty much saying it is useless to take it to trial. Just to live with her decision. This is just WRONG. I sure hope somebody can read this and give me some advice. I don't think my attorney is representing me correctly and sufficiently. I have paid him nearly all of my savings and she is the one that declined mediation and started this thing. She makes 40g a year and I am on disability. I feel like I should be able to take her to court and sue her for attorney fees and damages mentally. They convinced the judge that I needed supervised visitation during the investigation. I get 4 hours a week supervised bye my mother. I am 36 years old. I take pain meds for injuries. Not abused but it is easy for her to say that I do. My own doctor says I don't abuse them. She is finishing up her report in a week or so. It has taken her 6 months and she was to have it done by the end of the year. It is now March 12. If anyone can give me some advice as to what to do in the matter it would be great. i am going to go to the law library tomorrow to see if there is any cases that depict a similar situation. I want to know my rights. This is my child we are talking about! I raised her by myself for the first year of her life. No daycare, just me. Alone! I got up in the middle of the nights, not her mother. I was home all day with her, not her mother. This is just not right. She got a high powered attorney with my childs SS money. I can't prove this but it is the case. I don't have a very experienced attorney. I feel so screwed. Help me please!

George Branstiter

March 27, 2014 at 7:25 pm

I agree that there are bad GAL's, most local attorneys know them and avoid them. Hopefully, they will then die on the vine from inactivity. However, I think the most important point is the need to work WITH the GAL. They shouldn't have to work in a vacuum. Many attorneys don't communicate with the GAL at all, then complain because they didn't talk to a specific person or look into some area. Then they try to attack the GAL in court for not doing their job. Excellent article on need to communicate with the GAL which is the attorney's job. After that, if the GAL didn't do what was requested, then they are fair game and you should go after them as unreliable tools of the court.

Allen

August 30, 2014 at 9:00 pm

Ted, First off, I am not a lawyer. But, I have severely suffered from a biased GAL and recently by Fiance was completely screwed over by a corrupt GAL and a Judge that willingly colluded with the GAL. I have read and studied a hell of a lot on many of the issues involved in mine and my fiance's cases. Based on all that we have gone through and what we have learned... I would enjoy speaking with you... in the role of "this is what we did and what happend"... "this is what we are thinking of doing"... "have you tried this?"... as well as to provide you a place to vent and strategize. Please contact me with talon926 at hotmail period com. I look forward to speaking with you and I'm curious where your case is being heard. -Allen (Columbus Ohio)

Benjamin

December 25, 2014 at 11:47 pm

Thank you so much for this information! It is very difficult to find any quality information about GAL's and how to prevent them from abusing their power or negligently handling your case. I have bookmarked this page and subscribed to your blog. Hopefully, you can write some further information on Family Law related matters.

Rollin Hetwall

February 9, 2015 at 11:57 am

My Guardian, Kaufnmann and Associates of Mount Pleasant South Carolina left me incarcerated.

CJ

February 12, 2015 at 8:52 pm

What can you advise in the case of a parent who has a court appointed attorney in a child protection case and what their role in dealing with a GAL is? There is a complete lack of trust or respect between this GAL and myself for various reasons and I have let my attorney know of my reasons in order to request or motion to have a new GAL put on the case but the attorney is not willing to do this. I am only doing this because I love my daughter and I see things the GAL Is doing that I know are not reflective of any interest in her well-being or in the preservation of our relationship.

Gregory Forman

February 12, 2015 at 10:00 pm

You do not work for your attorney; your attorney works for you. If your attorney won't file a motion to relieve the guardian, you can discharge that attorney and hire one who will. However, there might be good reasons not to file such a motion. Be cautious in rejecting a good attorney's advice.

sue

March 11, 2015 at 12:16 pm

Wonderful article! I am in case with my 14 year old daughter who will be 15 in 1 month. Her father was in and out of her life for 12 years. He had also never supported her the whole time. He recently took me to court for visitation and I didn't hire an attorney because I had no objections. If she wanted to see him my door was always opened and I would support her on that. The problem is that she doesn't want to go there at all. She hasn't seen him in 3 years and then he does this. He paid for a gal for her and the gal does not like me for done reason. The gal said in court that she had called and left me several messages so that we could have an interview. I asked her what number because I have no missed calls or messages from her, she pulled her folder out and acted like she was going to show me and slammed it shut and down and tried to distract from that so I asked again what number she called and she would never tell me and then my daughter told her that she gave her my number and it was right and the gal called her a liar. I have called and tried to sit an appointment up with her since and have left messages on both her phones and I have still not heard from her. She issued that my daughter go see her father the first weekend of every month at his moms. She had went for 3 visits so far. The first visit there was cops involved. I want to let everyone know my daughter is an honor student and dreaming of Yale, she is smart and such a great kid and anyone and every teacher from k through 9th can vouch that she is a teachers pet and nothing but a joy. The second visit he twisted her wrist and took her cell phone away and she had no way to text me. She called me from their home phone and he stood over her the whole time. The third visit he twisted her wrist and shoved her into the dresser to take her phone again and she locked herself on the bathroom scared and called the police. The police told her that he has the right to hit her and one of the officers told her a story about how he yanked his kid by the back of the hair to get the d.s from him and then made her go back in his house scared. Her wrist was still hurting her when I picked her up so I took her to the doctor and the diagnosed her with tendinitis from the way he twisted and shoved it back, the wrapped it and prescribed medication for inflammation. I was told that I need to get a protective order on him so I did that yesterday. I have left messages for the gal to call me but she still hasn't so she has no idea. My daughter told her last time that he twisted her wrist and took her phone and the gal said he shouldn't take her phone. Her father told me that I need to talk to the gal because she told him he can. Him and the gal are on texting bases and they stay in contact and he told our daughter that he is going to talk to the gal about staying the night on her next visit. The gal also represented his sisters soon so I suppose they know eachother. I am worried because the gal doesn't like me at all and she is who the judge is going to listen to. I am also worried that my daughter has only been there 3 times and hurt 2 of those times and the police 2 of those times. He has everyone against her telling them that she is a brat and a liar. Last time she was there he told her she wasn't special and he put his face 5 inches from hers and stared at her and told her that he can do this all day and she can't do anything about it because he owns the house. I feel so bad for her she is being mentally and physically abused ams I know it isn't severe but it is more than she had ever witnessed and she dreads going and hates it there. I am afraid it is going to make her turn bad and start rebelling. Any advice would be so greatly appreciated. Thank you

Mandy

March 15, 2015 at 12:26 pm

Sue, I read your article and others on completely bias and crooked GALs and feel just awful for you and your daughter. Unfortunately, I am seeing more and more horror stories and feel that there should be some kind of national committee or support group that should be set up to help people who are faced with the same or similar issues involving "demi-god" like GALs. Sadly, I have been fighting a malicious court battle with my sister this past year with a horrible, malicious, bias and totally disgusting GAL that has misrepresented my mother in every possible way since the very beginning of the conservatorship case. She has completely lied in court about my mom's wishes, gone against my mom's own opposition to go live with my sister, gone against the advise of her doctor's, social workers, lawyers and caregiver. In support of my sister, she fought so diligently in court to have my mom removed from my home and care even when it was completely against my mom's own wishes and my mom told everyone in court that she was afraid of my sister, hated her and did not want to go live with her due to past abuse. My sister appointed this GAL who is so unbelievably crooked and bias and has gotten away with murder. My 82 year old mom was uprooted from a very safe and healthy environment while residing with me for almost 1 year and is now placed in an environment where is she being physically, mentally and financially abused by my sister and other abusive siblings of whom my mom filed an elder abuse lawsuit against. The GAL has managed to file a temporary restraining order against me preventing me from seeing or contacting my mother based on false accusations and lies made by my sister. My lawyer spent a significant amount of time on discovery work and we were planning to go to trial to reveal all of our evidence but they asked to work out a stipulation where I get monitored visits with my mom so the case went off calendar. We only went that route because it was the same judge who listened to the GAL in the first place and we decided the risk of her listening to her again and ignoring our evidence was high. We had 15 witnesses lined up to testify against my sister including health care professionals, social workers and police officers. I am my mother's appointed power of attorney, durable power of attorney and health care directive and the GAL told the judge that my mother did not know what she was doing at the time she appointed me in Jan 2014 and tried to petition to have all of my powers removed. This horrible bias GAL has cost me thousands of dollars in attorney fees and court battles due to her bias and hatred towards me. She had my mom uprooted without conducting any investigation or speaking to me or any of my mom's healthcare professionals, former caregiver or attorney who drew up my mom's power of attorney documents. Due to more lies and false allegations, she was successful in suspending my advance health care directive only weeks after my mother was forced to go live with my sister so I wasn't able to oversee her medical concerns any longer. Now my mother is suffering from serious depression, pain and high blood pressure. Because I was still in my mom's healthcare system, I was getting alert notices and overdue notices for unfilled prescription medications and bloodwork showing my sister had been medically neglecting my mom's care. My attorney filed a TCON attaching all of the supporting evidence to show my sister was medically abusing my mom while under her care but the judge denied the petition saying the information was inadmissable in court since my healthcare directive had been suspended. OMG, the court system doesn't even care if an 82 year old woman is currently being abused mentally, physically and financially even when hard evidence is presented to them. The GAL lied again in court saying my mom was opposed to the TCON to appoint a private conservator of whom I petitioned for to look after my mom's well being. They intentionally left my mom home and did not let her attend the hearing fearing that she will reveal the truth about my sister abusing her. The GAL also had my mom's former attorneys removed accusing me that I had hired them. This of course is completely false as my mom willingly hired them before the case in opposition to my sister's petition for conservator. I've been receiving so many distress calls from my mother for many months now and I don't know what else I can do to help her out of her abusive situation. The GAL has gone rogue and has misrepresented my mother in every possible way to support my sister and the court is listening to her based solely on her opinions (with no supporting evidence). My brother is also very sad to see our mother suffering like this and has filed a petition to have the GAL removed. This case has been nothing but an uphill battle for us but we don't want to give up on our mother as we love her and can't bear to see her suffering like this. She doesn't want to be held there against her will and is pleading for help. The GAL has done everything in her power to go against her wishes and has opposed all of my petitions and is trying to permanently keep her in an abusive and unhealthy environment. Any thoughts or advise on what else we could do would be most helpful. Thank you.

jean

April 1, 2015 at 1:19 pm

Very experienced GAL is working my case, but represented my first ex husband against me aprox. 10 years ago....I don't believe she should be able to work this case, I would like to have her removed, since she made crazy and outrageous statements at the hearing, I am representing myself, and am trying to do this to make sure there will be not be a way for her to stay...

Rita Carr

April 6, 2015 at 10:21 am

I feel every effort should be made, on the part of parents and their attorney's, to ensure parents/clients take the initiative to voluntarily participate in co-parenting programs and seek out low-cost parental support programs/resources provided/recommended by Family Court Services, state run social services (CPS) public schools, faith based organizations, etc. and voluntarily participate family & personal counseling. All are available at no or low-cost. It gives more bite to your case/strategy by demonstrating a willingness to continually improve and strengthen "co-parenting" skills and personal/familial "well-being". Also, why would a judge or GAL discount participation in programs recommended by the courts and/or funded by the state and/or federal government. I believe requesting a GAL investigate/recommend, detailed in the manner recommended in blog, via Motion as well as formal letter request, provides an opportunity to get concerns "on the record" and supports future requests for court appointed child advocates (CASA), court experts and future impeachment of GAL. The GAL for our children (post divorce-custody) informed me, via email, I could not communicate with any third party, only GAL. GAL was aware I intended on filing a restraining order against my former spouse for non-stop harassing emails, contacting CSED for $10,000 in delinquent child support, file an OSC for custodial interference, and Motion to Enforce re: MSA for failure to pay debt or provide 1/2 assets. "Acting beyond the scope of appointment" is how I intend to address GAL actions. While researching caselaw, I was surprised how often attorneys/pro se choose to attack the decisions/in-decisions of the GAL and receive the "acting WITHIN the scope of their appointment" or "Quasi-judicial immunity" decision. Possibly something to keep in mind: focus on documenting YOUR actions/attempts to bring forth resolution to issues impacting children, YOUR communications informing the GAL of concerns and requesting their involvement, the decision/in-decisions of GAL, and the impact/result of the GAL decision on YOUR children/family. Forget how the GAL has impacted your role as a parent or parental rights! You give up your role and rights when a GAL is involved in any capacity. In the courts eyes, you have flat out agreed you and/or your former spouse are incapable of making decisions together for the best interests of your children, so, someone needs to make them for you. Regardless of your original intention to obtain a GAL for your children. Question: If GAL's ultimately have the final say on all decisions impacting our children, removing our rights as parents, how do we demonstrate a GAL is qualified to make those decisions? Simply being an attorney does not demonstrate your ability to parent or co-parent. I intend on requesting, via Motion, for the appointment of a CASA advocate, Court Appointed Expert (custody re-eval) and Parenting Coordinator in the hope outside input will curtail and acknowledge the GAL's actions. This also will provide an opportunity to "get on record" concerns/issues and demonstrate/imply bias and actions/in-actions of GAL.

Carmen

April 11, 2015 at 7:37 pm

I live in Augusta and my community is plagued with misconduct. Our GAL's are not Attorney's, and they are not required to have any specialized training to be a Gal. A high school diploma, 40 hours of field training and yearly continuing Ed class. There has been several reports and news articles published over the past year with Gal concerns: leaving a friend during a visit, having family/social visits during Supevised visits; improper billing, etc. I had a Gal once and she was nothing like what these articles state. She had a heart of gold & charged minimal $ for her time & work. She looked after my 3 kids like they were her own. My question is this, how can Gal's have such power over the fate of children, and have little education and have family/social visits and be outted publicly, and still remain a Gal?

Valerie H

May 6, 2015 at 11:50 am

What about a GAL who gives the opposing parent in a custody dispute the number to a lawyer who is seeking pro bono clients? The father had a lawyer and the GAL called the mother & gave her the contact info stating, "I shouldn't do this but...."

Shannon Hammond

May 14, 2015 at 2:50 pm

i too am going through the same place with a GAL. I am wondering what state are you in? County? I am interesting in learning about your case and maybe if we all ban together we can make a difference for the children.

Hester

May 15, 2015 at 5:31 am

I had to set up a go fund me acct to put up a request for donations. The horrors of what the gal did are on there. A few days ago the ER determined my son needed behavioral therapy but the gal had cut it off in October. I am going to make a police report about her medical neglect and abuse. Www.gofundme.com/jlsof8 please go and read thank you. Also, my email is on there

Valerie H

May 18, 2015 at 11:22 am

The courts really need to hold GALs legally accountable for their unprofessional, unethical and abusive actions. Absolute immunity should be recalled/repealed, whatever legalese is used to get rid of this all encompassing permit that allows GALs to act anyway they want w/o fear of legal ramifications/accountability by a wronged person. So who will start the ball rolling in Ohio to make GALs legally accountable for their abusive and costly actions?

Era

June 8, 2015 at 9:43 pm

Sue, Your daughter's father sounds like a monster who wasn't raised right himself. This is scary stuff, especially with a loco GAL in the picture. They seem to cause more harm than good. I'll be praying for your situation. Please post an update. God bless you both.

Joe S.

June 26, 2015 at 11:53 pm

The GAL that was assigned to my wife's case has a criminal history. The GAL qualifications states: 1. A guardian ad litem must be an adult who should: a) be able to make independent, mature and informed decisions on issues involved in the case; b) employ impartiality, open-mindedness and fairness in determining what is in the best interest of the child; c) have not represented a person or party in pending or past litigation involving the child; d) have not been convicted of any crime listed in Chapter 3 of Title 16, Offenses Against the Person; Chapter 15 of Title 16, Offenses Against Morality and Decency; Article 3 of Chapter 53 of Title 44, Narcotics and Controlled Substances; or for the crime of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, provided for in § 16-17-490; and e) have received appropriate training or experience. Criminal history includes one or more of the following: FILING FALSE POLICE REPORT MISDEMEANOR CLASS U SHOPLIFTING, $1000 /LESS MISDEMEANOR CLASS U FRAUDULENT CHECK-LESS THAN 50 0 MISDEMEANOR CLASS U I am not an attorney but it appears to me the first charge violates the GAL requirements?

Valerie

June 29, 2015 at 7:46 am

Joe, that's horrible and very, very concerning given the decision the GAL has to make. You need to try and have this GAL removed & another assigned. Good luck sir. Val

Marie

August 25, 2015 at 4:44 pm

We just got out of a hearing. We originally had a guardian ad litem that was in favor of my husbands children residing in our home. They've lived here for the past 2years. Their mother has continually made false CPS reports during that time and we have been cleared EVERY time. She recently petitioned the court for a change of custody and the court assigned a new GAL. This new one shows up , sits down on our couch and proceeds to talk to our other children ( not ones involved in the case) about books. She did not measure or check anything, mind you. She also made no attempt to speak with the children that are involved. She then asks for a continuance on Aug. 5,2015, on the grounds that she was unable to speak with the school staff. Then in her report today she states that she spoke with the school on July 15 . She also states that our house is too small . She did not speak with the childrens psychologist as we asked and even added in her report that they were seen privately , when we attend family therapy. Can you report someone like this to the Bar association?

Brandy Morrison

September 5, 2015 at 12:22 pm

Hello, My question is this.... A GAL is supposed to represent what is in the Child's best interest correct? How can one then recommend that a parent who in his report states that he firmly believes that the same parent he recommend have custody had recently assaulted one of the children involved. How can one also recommend that a parent have custody when he firmly states that the children do not want that parent to have custody because they are closer and feel more comfortable with the other parent? How can one state on the record that even after hearing all the facts on one parents Domestic violence Convictions against the other parent along with continued violence against the children "It is not a concern at this time, because it is not ongoing and that the children are not frightened by their Father"? This has been a nightmare! It just goes to show if you have enough money you can do very well in todays court system.

Kim Harrell

September 15, 2015 at 5:17 pm

Dear Joe S., Where did you find the list of "The GAL qualifications?" I am in Texas and cannot find any clearly defined responsibilities of, certifications or continuing education requirements, etc., in the Texas Family Law Code. I will appreciate any information regarding GALs and Texas. Thank you, Kim

Blair

November 14, 2015 at 6:10 pm

What? What happened?

LaMesa Cole

November 18, 2015 at 8:23 pm

As a Mississippi resident, I discovered that MS is the ONLY state that does not offer legal representation for its indigent/poor residents. As a single black mother who is forced to be pro se for my 10 year old daughter, I have been assigned to a GAL by the chancery court judge and read some of the cases in which she has been appointed to and I will say that she has some sort of a vendetta against the mothers. She removed the children from the mothers and gave full custody to the fathers on several of the cases I read. Both parents were scored evenly on both accounts but the GAL did not do an unbiased or incomplete evaluation on them. My story is that the father has continuously canceled visitation more than had it and my child has been vomiting in his custody. His wife/stepmother is a bully like he is and creating an environment that is making her sick every time is over there. I do have a legitimate concern/fear of him getting full custody because he caused me to lose custody 10 years ago of my 17 year old son to his father who lived prior in Michigan and currently lives in Connecticut with my son. My daughter has had a genuine fear of her father and he has supervised visits at his parents house with her ;however, they are forcing her to talk and call him. She wants to do none of it and has hated him every since she's had to visit him. Last summer (July 2014), he took her for a week and brought her back after ONE week to tell me and her that he doesn't want her to come back to his house until the vomiting stopped and I stop badmouthing him and his family. Every July 1st, I dropoff my daughter at 5pm, he wasn't there as court ordered. However, he demanded he pick her up 3 days after the 1st. I felt obliged but not required because of not wanting to be deemed uncooperative, but that mistake costed me because he would not prove why he brought her back when I asked, why did you bring her back?". He made no contact after that until school started and demanded visitation the first weekend of school, then the next weekend he canceled visitation. After hearing about the situation from my daughter about that summer week with him and stepmother and the many reports of vomiting and psychological and emotional abuse, I feared returning her and didn't for a year until he served me papers. The father is a Mississippi pastor but lives in Arlington, TN (45 min.drive). He complains that he has to drive an hour and a half to see his child. He for the past 10 years has to travel that time for church, so what is the problem? Nothing. I am concerned for the GAL on my case even though I didn't want to allow his attorney to make decisions for me. I am letting God decide what to do about what needs to happen but after I read about GALs, now, I have to go with the court's decision. As I am pro se, do I contact the GAL or should I wait for the GAL to contact me. I made initial contact (Nov. 13) and her assistant said she would contact me on Monday (Nov. 16) but not response. My daughter is scheduled to be visit father at grandparents house for thanksgiving but is fearful of going. I know i have to follow court orders, can a GAL enforce her to not return to my house, even though school is not over for the year?

Ronda

November 22, 2015 at 5:30 pm

Kim, I was able to locate the requirements for a GAL in Texas. Here is the link - it is a pdf file. http://www.county.org/member-services/education-and-training/presentations/Documents/2015%20Fall%20Judicial/1.%20Guardianship%20-%20the%20Role%20of%20Guardian%20Ad%20Litem%20-%20Johnson.pdf Just copy and past into your browser and the document should come up. Good Luck with your case.

Mike

December 6, 2015 at 1:10 am

Hi, recently divorced, custody battle. I won full custody from my ex-wife who the previous year had a drug overdose suicide attempt and multiple sexual deviancy episodes (let's just say "more" than affairs. My Ex wanted a GAL...long story short--I had zero trust for my Ex and did everything I could to keep myself protected. In doing so, I recorded my conversations with the GAL....she lied, misquoted (multiple witnesses even wrote letters attesting as such), withheld evidence, etc. Not just once or twice, but literally dozens of times in her 14 page "report". It was a complete, purposeful railroad job. Upon our trial, when she learned of my recorded conversations with her, she started retracting her statements, saying she was "only human and makes mistakes" and the like. Adding insult to injury, I had to pay half of her $8,000 bill. Granted, I "won" the custody, the house, etc.--but the fact remains this person is a Menace to Society who lies and terrorizes families. I have irrefutable evidence...but in Ohio, GAL's have Judicial Immunity. I want to sue her for obvious reasons. I should be allowed to sue her based on her actions. I need help with this--families in our community will continue to go thru what I did--and I need to make an example of her.

Aimee

December 14, 2015 at 5:02 pm

Sue, Your case sounds almost identical to mine (it's going on as we speak). I would be interested to email with you about this. Perhaps we may have helpful information for each other. My email is 1970beloved@gmail.com.

Blair

December 15, 2015 at 3:34 am

If I can ask, what evidence was withheld? My understanding is you are legally allowed to ask an receive a copy of the Guardian's file, not his/her notes but the file itself. Mine refuses to provide a copy for me, however has provided a copy to the opposing counsel. The Guardian also re-released medical records of my minor children without consent, as we as sending the records via email that was not encrypted. I am floored by the lack of care and concern people have for the children in these cases. Whether its the parent, guardian, lawyers or the Judge, who continue the madness without safeguarding the children, I do believe will stand before God and give an account. It is so sad to read the stories that have been shared. I do believe I am going to look into what I can do to have the Statute amended in regard to holding a Guardian ad litem accountable. Thank you for reading this, I hope to hear from you if you have the time to respond. B

Kim

December 28, 2015 at 11:53 pm

I have been wanting to know how to get rid of a GAL that has taken my ex's side and does not have the best interest of my kids in mind. I divorced because my ex-husband had an affair with a friend of mine. She was also his employee at the time. I was very angry in the beginning and sent him a lot of emails where I called him lots of names. It is now two years later and he continues to fight with me about getting more time with the kids. I had to do several months of counseling and I feel so much better know. The GAL's report rips me apart and repeatedly states that I have anger issues and am abusive to my ex. This is not the case at all. I have been trying to work with him and he refuses. She wants to put into place a new schedule that the kids and myself do not like or think will work. Their dad is not able to pick them up after school or take them to school so he wants his girlfriend to do it. Yet, the GAL wants the kids to go home with the girlfriend several days a week. I have sent her references for people I work with, go to church with, neighbors, daycare workers, teachers, etc. so she could check my references. She hasn't called any of them. I then asked her if she checked with my counselor to see if I have made progress with my "anger". She said no one asked her to. I find this very unfair to me. I have asked my lawyer about it and she does not want to help me in any way. Does anyone have any suggestions? I have spent way to much of my time and money on this stupid issue, but I also love my kids to the ends of the earth and want to continue to fight for them.

Kim Harrell

December 29, 2015 at 4:13 pm

Ronda, I'm so sorry, but I didn't notice your response until today. Thank you very much for taking the time to provide that information. Kim

Blair

December 29, 2015 at 4:33 pm

I have a question. Hypothetically: If the opposing attorney is "deposing you" and the GAL is in attendance. During a break, the only 2 individuals in the conference room is the opposing attorney and the GAL. Can the GAL whisper to the opposing attorney certain questions to ask the individual being deposed? Lets take it a step further, The subpoena states who is being deposed and who is deposing. The GAL is not listed, can the Deposing attorney decide to "take a break" and turn the deposition to the GAL though the individual being deposed was not made aware that the GAL would be asking questions? What if then the individual being deposed made a comment that he/she was not made aware of the GAL participating in the Deposition and did not feel that he/she had ample time to prepare-to be interrupted abruptly and told, "if you do not answer the GAL questions we will both file a motion to hold you in contempt and will both file for attorney fees." My thought process is if she is asking her own questions why guide the opposing attorney on what questions he should ask in his deposition, especially since the GAL is supposed to be unbiased. Can you please shed some light on this for me? Thank you for your time and for your Blog, it has been blessing to me.

Ken

January 8, 2016 at 2:37 pm

I have just read the Guardian Ad litems report and it is full of provable inaccuracies. More importantly I have an email that says the following, which to me is proof that my ex's lawyer lied to the GAL. Just a quick note to let you know that (My ex's lawyer, name removed) has acknowledged that the “out of the picture” characterization was incorrect and not what should have communicated to me( The GAL). ( name removed, my ex) didn’t communicate those words to him so … just wanted to pass that along...... I think that is enough to show cause that my ex's lawyer lied with the mis characterization. This was only caught because it was in a series of emails and I dont think it was suppose to be included. What do you think in Princeton, NJ

Kim Harrell

January 8, 2016 at 4:39 pm

All, I'm still in nightmare of biased GAL and time is running out. Daughter turned 17 on the 4th of Jan, 2016. Temp Orders still in place, but GAL's simple emails override them. Not seeking Custody any more, as this has been going on since Daughter was 14-3/4 yrs old, has had complete freedom (to dive into the depths of darkness) and will be 18 in just one year. I AM SEEKING A WAY OUT FOR HER! (Victim of Parental Alienation and needs Treatment.) I am holding my (3rd) atty at bay while I investigate a different tactic: I found a book named "NOT In the Child's Best Interest . . .Why Divorce Courts Get It All Wrong and How the Constitution Can Fix It." My local library didn't have the book, so I asked for an inter-library loan. To my delight, my library purchased the book! Current goal: Devour the book (have started it and wish I didn't have to put it down, but things like health ins for the children, etc. come up). Use the advice given here about documenting what we want the GAL to do and then her lack of follow-through, AND following the advice of the Authors, who have been through this nightmare. Also, will try to start a local group of people going through same, all reading this and other suggested material and sharing thoughts, experiences and insights for progress in the "Judicial System." (Not a support group.) Will also be lobbying for Family Law reform in my State Legislature. I feel led to do so. Welcome any comments, suggestions, inquiries.

Jeannette

January 9, 2016 at 3:25 pm

We've had a very similar situation with a GAL, and her responses are "I'm only human" I find this interesting! My daughter also recorded conversations with this individual. She was asked to look into a court case, that involved DUI but didn't! Asked the lawyer to schedule a drug test that took 3 weeks to be taken. At a drop off my daughter was concerned because he looked high, and called the police before he could leave. GAL was there! The GAL was quick to tell the police they had to have probable cause to search. What we are dealing with is a retired police on disability. Whose father is a police officer, and knows the state prosecutor. They paint a picture perfect family, but it's all smoke and mirrors. This guy knows his way around the law, and uses it to his full advantage. Even though he was convicted in another state the GAL has his back. He just recently had yet another incident, and it was covered up. Most would be fined with child endangerment. Not him. He wants this same GAL on the case the new case!! We don't want her. We have proof of her biase. A Binder full! Where at in Ohio did this happen? Maybe this is a reach, but it sounds like you had the same GAL

Blair

January 9, 2016 at 7:55 pm

Can you not file a motion to have the GAL replaced and supply the documentation along with the Motion? At least you would be heard and would have brought it to the Court's attention.

cassie

January 18, 2016 at 11:29 pm

I am grateful and appalled to find this group. I am grateful so that I know I am not alone; appalled to learn these issues are far more common than I ever wanted to know. I do not recall the person who posted about starting a national conversation . If you read this and want to communicate, I am more than willing to work on this very important issue. masscass@aol

Cheri

January 27, 2016 at 6:56 am

I am in the middle of a nasty custody battle with my ex. Here's the story: My cousin gave her children up legally in court. I took her youngest in with my ex husband. A few years later I left said husband but was forced to comply with Custody and visitation to prevent bio parents from comming back (more out of fear than anything). My child came from a very abusive, neglectful environment (local authorities said it was the worse torture case they've experienced, yet won't put parents in jail for sex trafficking minors [6, 4 and 3.5 years old by the time I got them from the home] sexual misconduct, tied to beds and beaten or touched or forced to have bed bugs crawl on them, locked in rooms for days on end. Yet the courts still allow an opinion from bio parents and wont put children on stand to put in jail. I found that my ex and his mom questioned my daughter if I left bruises on her or hit her during her visit with me. Her safety was jepordized 3 times at the daycare center he has her at (not checking adults id and allowing adult to take child from facility). Also had her around his uncle who is a previous registered sex offender and accused of having sex with minors and spent time in prison for it. Takes her to funerals, after she witnessed a murder (yes my baby witnessed a dead body before she was 4 years old). I refused visitation for 1.5 months due to his decisions. Now we are in court. We hired guardian, I couldn't pay all at first but paid 200 and made arrangements for the rest. I am head of household for 5 people. My ex just has him and my daughter. The last time I spoke to guardian was November and it's January. She had my ex bring my daughter to her (Jan 25, 2016) but I have not heard one word from her since November. There is no communication besides payments and when it will get paid. She did come observe my home and the other people who actively support my daughter and her way of life while with me. But have heard nothing further from her. The magistrate also has personal ties to my ex because he went to school with her son and is friends on Facebook with the magistrate son. When my ex was younger the magistrate did boy scouts with my exes group and his mother. I've asked my lawyers to ask for all new magistrate and guardian because of these reasons. I'm still awaiting the answers for that. This child is my flesh and blood but I have to fight against my ex who has no blood ties to her. I realize it all comes down to who pays up first. I don't have a money tree but he does. Any thoughts/suggestions would be appreciated.

Griffin

March 10, 2016 at 6:09 pm

GAL's are completely worthless to a case... Let me repeat that. GALs are completely worthless to a case. For all of the mentioned reasons above at the beginning of the article. Not to mention the fact that they are making decisions based on things such as "mental abuse", abuse of individuals, he said, she said and other non evidence such as their own personal bias.They are neither qualified, nor licensed to be making such findings that should involve trained, credentialed individuals in the fields of psychology, therapy and family counseling... They in the end cost MANY MORE TIMES what these services that are qualified would cost, and after they tear apart families (because the above is absolutely correct when it says they are viewed as demi-gods by the judges), with their biased, untrained personal "OPINIONS", then you as a parent are left with thousands of dollars in legal fees to pay for to these cowards and crooks! Not only are they unconstitutional to family law, because they are NOT a legal party to the cases (and merely a scapegoat for lazy judges who do not do the work they should to review a case properly), but they do not have the authority under most states as well as the Federal Constitution to be total authoritarians to people's lives and choices as to how they want to raise their children! A wind of change is coming and will sweep in to our courts, because the American public is growing fed up with having our right to parent trumped by local or federal government... GAL's days as part of the legal horizon are numbered... Because the laws are going to change. And it will be sooner than later, mark my words. Some big money is starting to pour into seeing this change happen.....

Perfect imperfection

March 11, 2016 at 11:54 am

I need help I never been through this I'm fighting a 2nd degree assault and a domestic assault a GAL JUST VISITED ME SHOULD I HAVE TALKED TO MY ATTORNEY FIRST

Ethical Dad in Shock

April 2, 2016 at 3:29 pm

Kansas GAL, Steve Ellis, is corrupt as the day is long. He has never investigated ANY of the complaints or issues that I have asked him to do so. He mirrors exactly what my ex-wife says. She happens to suffer from severe mental illness. Never investigated that either. My daughter doesn't have own room and sleeps with her mother. Never looked into. She is punished for saying the truth. Oddly, Steve, and my ex do carry the same "to go" cups from the local bar here. The Judge goes along with everything he says. Who do I contact to investigate this situation. I am a decorated retired/disabled Police Officer that has 40 friends outraged about the wrongs that are taking place in this courtroom and plan on showing up at the next hearing. Does the FBI, or KBI investigate criminal wrong doings of this sort. I do have contacts. Thanks for any information.

Pat

April 8, 2016 at 3:47 pm

Want to compare notes?

Ethical Dad Still in Shock

April 22, 2016 at 12:35 am

This article describes GAL Steven Ellis. The author says a good GAL will go into both parents’ homes to observe the living situation and to observe parent-child interactions. Ellis does not do this. Attentive GALs will investigate claims that a parent interferes in a relationship between the children and the other parent. Ellis does not do this. Ellis conducts little investigation, recites the usual mumbo-jumbo about co-parenting, collects his fee, and goes back to his real job as a the mayor of Springhill. He is a intermeddler who has adds no value but runs up the cost. He is unconcerned with the interest of the children -- he says what the judge wants him to say and provides his subjective opinions based on his own family situation.

Mike

May 9, 2016 at 8:13 am

interested in hearing what you have to say about GAL "Ellis" he's been recommended.. but I cannot find anything about him online. Seems like being a Mayor would limit your time/involvement in cases..

Worthless_GAL

May 9, 2016 at 9:24 am

I feel as if my custody case was mishandled by the G.A.L.. Here's the situation. The kids mother walked out on us, leaving the kids in my care, residence, etc. She chose drugs and alcohol over having a family essentially which of course caused problems at home. About a year later she was arrested for selling meth to undercover D.E.A. agents. When i found out she was arrested for drugs, etc I immediately requested a modification of our custody order. The G.A.L. at the time I filed modification, seemed to be thinking in the best interest of the my 2 kids, she removed the mothers overnight visits and various other items via a temporary custody order. The mother dragged her court proceedings, for the drug conviction, out over the next 1.5 to 2 years. She was finally found guilty by jury trial. She spent 10 days in jail and has 5 years probation. It was time to finalize the custody modification. The mother did not have an attorney. We had a trial date set. When the G.A.L. was notified of the original trial date, she wasn't able to attend the trial so it got pushed off another month. During this month, I had no contact with the G.A.L. I do know that she had the kids mother bring the kids in to speak with her and I'm pretty sure "mom" spoke with this G.A.L. as well (persuading her) . When it came time for our court trial, the G.A.L. wanted to "mediate." Is this even legal? The G.A.L. chastised me for reporting the kids mother to the probation officer for associating with known drug felons. Stating that I should have brought my concerns to the mother and her boyfriend. There's several other issues that I had that the G.A.L. basically made me out to be the bad guy. My attorney pretty much just sat there and didn't make any arguments on my behalf. I was asking for Sole legal custody of my kids with joint physical custody and I also wanted child support. The kids live with me, I pay their insurance premium, I provide them with clothes, etc. One of my concerns was that the mother is using the kids names to draw food stamps fraudulently. (the kids live with me) The G.A.L. basically made the visitation during summer break so the kids mother can continue to draw food stamps. I also was not awarded child support. instead it's in our papers that the mother reimburses me for the insurance premium. So I currently sit frustrated for the past 1.5 years of this custody order. I have not been reimbursed at all for the kids insurance premium. I send the kids to school on fridays of "her weekend" in their decent clothes that fit, and pick them up wearing what I'd consider rags. The mother keeps the kids nice clothes. My son, who is 10 and wears a size 12 or 14, came home last night wearing a pair of size 8 sweat pants that were made into "cut offs" and a size 6-7 long sleeve t-shirt that looked like what I'd use as a rag. Also the boxer shorts he was wearing were size 6. Can I file a formal complaint against this G.A.L.? I know I've been told several times that I need to take the mother back to court, but what good will it do if we have the same G.A.L. ? also, since the last court hearing with the G.A.L., the kids mother has changed residence. She neglected to send me notice of them moving via certified mail, and actually lied to me about sending that letter and states that it must have been lost in the mail system. I haven't been inside the house that they moved into, however I do know that both of the kids sleep on the couch when they stay the night. They don't have separate private bedrooms, etc. This whole situation is very frustrating.

Mike

May 10, 2016 at 7:55 am

Ethical Dad... I am interested in the details of your interaction with Steven Ellis. Would you be interested in direct contact via email?

Ken

May 10, 2016 at 8:17 am

The GAL in my case was extremely biased and even with solid proof of my ex's actions was totally taken in by her. I had to work 5 times harder to prove my side and the cost was insurmountable in time consumption. She (GAL) was so clueless that she didn't even understand that the court we were in did not have jurisdiction in the case. To bad my lawyer figured it out too late, now we are in the appeal side of the case. GAL's are a waste of time, money and energy. Know now, you have no chance of turning a judges mind if you are Pro Se, so if you find you are on the loosing end when a GAL is assigned, get the best lawyer you can afford.. Your going to need him/her.

Deana Brandon

May 10, 2016 at 9:07 am

I disagree with the conclusion that if you are Prose and you are facing a biased GAL you absolutely have to have an attorney. I was Prose an I had a biased GAL. What I did was document everything and follow up with how I could support my case even more. I sent her a subpoena requiring all email correspondence with her and anyone with the case. WOW! HOW BENEFICIAL AND CRUCIAL TO MY CASE. It is interesting what people will say in a email. Also I have a digital recorder and I recorded my conversations with the GAL and anyone who I knew did not have an ounce of integrity. I dd not choose to go Prose, after 5 years of frivolous Motions being filed my attorney and I came to the conclusion that the other side was trying to bankrupt me so I went solo. You will have to study the laws in your state, know the job role and responsibilities of a GAL and study the rules of civil procedures, court rules, study objections and know what's allowed to be submitted into evidence but more importantly what is not allowed to be submitted. It takes Hard Work, dedication and Faith that God has not brought you this far to let you fall. I believe people who do not do their job in regards to caring for the best interest of children invite a spotlight on their inexcusable behavior. I wish you much success with your appeal.

Ken

May 10, 2016 at 2:07 pm

You must have had a very special Judge. Every Judge I have had is more concerned with clearing the docket then hearing all the facts. I had 23 counts of solid purgery against my ex in her response to my motion and the judge didn't want to hear it, all she wanted to hear was the exact facts of the case. Even after I explained that her purging herself is part of the case the judge didn't want to hear any of it. She wouldn't even go over my stipulations point by point. She just wanted to resolve one thing and didn't care about anything else. This is not the first time this has happened, as a matter of fact it has happened 3 times with 2 different Judges. In 4 years of being in and out of court, I have only had one Judge that wanted to hear everything. My son was 31 days from his 18th birthday and the Judge refused to have him in the court room, even when he stood up and said he wanted to be in the court room because he was the only non biased witness to the he said/she said stuff. I have 4 years of emails and the judge accuses me of writing volume's of emails. When I state that if my ex would just once stick to the court ordered visitation I would never have any more than 1 email per visitation, but when my ex says she is not sending my kids for Thanksgiving and makes up some crazy rule that has nothing to do with anything, what am I supposed to do, just roll over and let her take all the holidays?.. Judge didn't want to hear any of it. I was told to file another motion. I said " how can I put foundation to my case if I cant cite emails where my ex circumvents all reason.

Deana Brandon

May 12, 2016 at 10:08 pm

I am completely sorry to hear what you have endured. I think I would have to speak to an attorney that handles personal injury suits and question if your Civil Rights have been violated. You have a right to present your case and to be heard. The credibility of the GAL would seem relevant to me. May I ask what state you reside in?

ethical dad in shock

May 17, 2016 at 1:27 pm

Steve Ellis is recommended by alot of people. But, no-one who has directly had to work with him. Except his friend Judge Montgomery. He is the mayor, and also works at a local police department. Which is a disgrace to the badge. He does NO investigation, only collects a check. Does lots of things NONE of them well. I would NOT use him. You would get more use out of your money if you used it to wipe in the bathroom.

Gail

May 27, 2016 at 12:12 pm

We are currently going through a custody case where the GAL is obviously bias and we believe that she tainted the opinion of the court appointed co-parenting counselor whom she frequently works with. I have expressed concerns to the GAL about my children through emails and have never gotten any satisfactory results. I have given the GAL some of my opinions about my ex, most of which came from concerns my children have expressed and I know through statements made by this counselor that she knows of this information and that is the only way she could have gotten it. My question is...Is it ethical for the GAL to disclose this information to the co-parenting counselor?

Pat

June 24, 2016 at 2:47 am

If Steven Ellis is your GAL and you are a father, give your kids a hug and tell them you love them, because you will not see them again.

Lisa

June 24, 2016 at 3:31 am

I have a GAL who has been doing it for yrs, at first I thought it was a good idea and have tried numerous times to comply with suggestions she has had, but now feel as though THOES suggestions have been for the sole benefit of my ex instead of for my daughter. To start out, my daughter is mentally disabled. She is about to turn 19 in August and I have guardianship of her of which the GAL testified on my behalf on THIS issue. My daughter was 2 yrs old the last time my ex saw or spoke to my daughter. As a matter of fact, he never visited our daughter without a member of HIS family being present, and would always make an excuse of why he had to leave early and NOT give her her much needed seizure medication. He would say things like he wasn't sure how to give it to her even after I took 5 mins to make sure he knew the dosage and how to mix it. It was not rocket science. Crush a pill and put it in pudding or applesauce. One to.e he took her for an hr and brought her back and said he just had to get back to his wife at the hotel. I said it wS no problem and asked him if he had given our daughter her medication and he said "no, you know how to give it to her, so I just waited til I brought her back." Needless to say he has never given her her anticonvulsants. That was the last time we heard from him til a wk after her 17th birthday, when he called and said he felt guilty about not being in her life. I sat there on the phone "angry, but quiet", listened to what he said and then told him I was not in the right attitude at that time to speak to him and to call back in a couple of days. The next morning was busy with a letter to the court and a call to my attorney. I DID allow for 1 overnight visit an hr from MY house, my ex lives 5 hours away, and it was agreed upon that it was at a neutral setting at a college town so there were things for he and our daughter to do. The agreement was that he, our daughter, and myself would have separate email, our daughter and myself in 1 rm, and he in another. I am on disability and really don't have any disposable income.e, but I pd $85.00 for a rm not wanting to be beholden to HIM to pay for it. 2 days before the "visitation" took place, he called me and said he was going to be bringing he and his wife's daughter to visit since she hadn't seen her since she were a toddler. I reluctantly agreed, what else could I do? The day of the visit I get a text say HIS daughter was bringing her best friend so she wouldn't be bored. The whole "visitation" visit was centered around a mini vacation for "them" instead of a visitation with our daughter. The GAL, said I was being unrealistic in my opinions of his role as a father for her when he lives so far away. There has been MANY more issues with GAL and not enough space or time to put it all out there, but would LOVE to know if her services are still required, or if I can or need to petition the court to relieve her. This GAL has been more stressful than helpful.

Concerned dad

June 29, 2016 at 8:47 pm

Dear ethical dad, I am facing the same issue with Steve Ellis. He is siding solely with my ex and couldn't have even looked at my evidence. Please contact me at ricky04261980@gmail.com

Concerned dad

June 29, 2016 at 8:56 pm

Ken, I have recently dealt with perjury in the court also and you can take the evidence to the sherrifs dept and file a report. They take it to the DA and they decide to file charges. Look into requirements to prove perjury. I will be filing against my ex next week. Good luck

ethical dad

June 30, 2016 at 8:07 am

concerned dad, aka Ricky. Sorry, I won't contact you directly. I feel that ALL the comments regarding Steve Ellis should be known by ALL. He is a fraudulent crook, that belongs behinds bars. But beware, the more you disagree with him the more he tells the court that he needs to get paid. Judge Steve Montgomery, and him are friends. Judge Montgomery is up for reelection November 2016, vote him out of office. He has forgotten he works from the people not his own interests. I will be contacting the KBI, and any agency that will listen to file compaints about them today. I will post additional information later.

ethical dad

June 30, 2016 at 8:11 am

Additionally, I have expressed GREAT concerns about my ex-wifes father, who is an alcoholic pedophile, being around my kids. Steve Ellis was not concerned at all. Thinks that it is O.K. that they are spending most of the summer with him. HE IS NEVER CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT IS BEST FOR THE KIDS.

Blair

June 30, 2016 at 2:17 pm

Ken, can you explain the perjury complaint you are filing? If the DA takes the case what does that mean for you? I guess I'm trying to figure out where does this benefit you? I'm floored with so much crooked GALs what happened to looking out for the children? So sad. I appreciate you taking the time to share.

Kay

July 6, 2016 at 8:08 pm

Does anybody have experience to report about GAL Steven Ellis in Kansas City/Johnson County? If so, what judge was involved?

Kim

July 9, 2016 at 1:16 am

Hi, I saw your post and am in the same position w/ the private GAL in my custody case - for numerous reasons (including financial) I need to get her out of the case. I'd like to get a CASA guardian appointed so the case can be assessed by an independent evaluator. I was wondering if you ended up filing your motion to remove the GAL/replace with a CASA guardian and how it turned out.

concerned dad

July 14, 2016 at 8:48 am

I have the same issues with Steve Ellis in Miami Co, Kansas. My Ex is spending the summer with her father who is a confessed pedophile. Steve Ellis DOESN'T have a problem with that at all and only contacted HER friend and no one else about the situation, but claims to act in the best interest of the kids. Good luck and have patience that Karma will catch up with all of them.

concerned dad

July 14, 2016 at 9:01 am

Kay, whatever you do, DONT USE Steve Ellis, He will do nothing but collect a check. He wont do any investigation. He will only use templates of letters that he has used in the past sighting books and findings of people who actually care about children. He will only care about a check and $$ signs. NOT the children and what is best for them. Your only saving grace is that you are in JOCO, not MICO. Judges are alittle better up there. There seems to be an entire system of corruption regarding "The welfare of children." Hopefully the KBI will put a stop to this.

concerned dad

July 14, 2016 at 9:08 am

You should use the "lawyers" name, call them out and let the world know their wrong doing!

E.D.

July 14, 2016 at 9:12 am

Hope your situation is getting better. As a father we want to step in and protect our kids from wrong doing. It has been the hardest time of my life waiting and waiting and nothing being done. We can only hope that Karma will catch up to these wrong doers that don't care about the welfare of the children.

Frustrated mother

July 23, 2016 at 12:26 pm

I am in Missouri and am having a nightmare of a time dealing with our GAL. First off, he is already a judge in the county where the divorce/custody case is occurring. This, too me, is a conflict. Yet the worst is that he refuses to speak to the children about their best interests, needs, and wants. He was also supposed to do a home visit of the father's house because there are definitely unsafe conditions. He hasn't bothered to go. Then he was overheard telling another attorney that he didn't see the point in doing a home visit and that no one does those. My attorney has repeatedly attempted to contact him and is documenting everything he has refused to do. He even went so far as to make a comment that showed he sided with the father. I know there are many great fathers out there that deserve more custody of their kids, but this big push for fathers' rights is causing an unfit father to get everything handed to him by the judge and court. The father is a felon, has a DWI, has been caught lying about court matters, and several other unacceptable behaviors, but at every turn, the court and his corrupt lawyer keep giving him everything. I am the only one desperately fighting for the best interests of my daughters. Can anyone please give advice on how to fight this complete injustice towards my daughters?

Anne

July 23, 2016 at 1:03 pm

Make a bar complaint against the gal:judge and see if you can include witnesses make a journal date time of everything that occurred hopefully the judge gal will recuse himself!!! Also look online to see if they are friends on Facebook etc

Deana Brandon

July 24, 2016 at 11:00 am

Patel v Patel, 347 S.C. 281, 555 S. E.2d 386 (2001) Look up the Bar Standards of Professionalism Statement of Principles Look up False Evidence in Civil Proceedings

Angie

August 11, 2016 at 8:45 pm

Recently my husband's girls were appointed a GAL. Which would be swell if it weren't for the fact that she instantly sided with the mother. We just finished a custody battle after their mother moved them out of state (this has been a long time between my husband and his ex). Even though all the evidence proved they would be better fit to stay with us, the GAL convinced the judge otherwise. And honestly, can one blame him? After all, a GAL is supposed to be there for the kids. Unfortunately, she wasn't. She made it known that she was all for my husband's ex. Even advocated her in court when she had her own lawyer to take care of her. We lost the case, obviously. But what made it horrible was the GAL's obvious unprofessional attitude. She called my husband to rub it in his face about him losing the case. She also yelled at him after the court session AND walked away with the mom and her lawyer. It was one-sided and it wasn't right for those girls. Now my husband is a total wreck, with good reason. I told him to start recording phone calls with the GAL. But we have no idea what to do. Unfortunately, the state of Kansas is a no dad state. They would much rather see the mom, even if she is a danger to the kids, get the children before they give them to their father. I don't know what to do. I wish there was a way to fight this, and to prove that she is an unfit GAL for those kids.

Ellie

August 12, 2016 at 11:57 pm

GAL's are appointed in other instances too. We got one in a guardianship of a parent with Alzheimer's. Total nightmare. But at least before reading this the GAL was sent a list of issues to investigate. Barely spoke with me and made up their mind already. Biased on many different levels. Told me I wouldn't make a good guardian because of my depression. Do you have depression? Many folks do. Ever have someone threaten to take your kids away just for having it? This is the same. Law is corrupt.

Rebecca R.

August 14, 2016 at 2:32 pm

GALs usually make their job way too hard, partly because many of them were not properly trained or instructed (nor are family court judges, anywhere in the US, formally trained/instructed on parenting). The most conscientiously selected and best trained GALs will virtually never take sides between parents of minor children, and will spend their time in each of those cases ensuring there is optimal, adequate inter-parent communication, mediation of all issues affecting the child or children, joint parent-school engagement to ensure the school is fully engaged in helping parents to avoid any and all inter-parent litigation (and that no school personnel are taking sides between the parents), facilitating inter-parent cooperation and agreement, and reporting any family lawyers or family court judges who are escalating conflict, seeking to sever inter-parent communication, obstructing mediation, filing/entering tactical protection orders, or taking any other cruel or violent action(s) against the family.

cassie

August 15, 2016 at 7:12 pm

Your comments are appreciated. However, I fear that is the ideal world that you are discussing rather the realities most of the complaints address. As long as human beings are involved, there are the elements of bias and unfairness as part of the equation. Immanuel Kant (1724-1804) said, "Out of the crooked timber of humanity, no straight thing was ever made."

Rebecca R.

August 15, 2016 at 10:55 pm

I stand corrected. Thank you Cassie

Rebecca R.

August 15, 2016 at 11:05 pm

Ted, If the GAL were trained and knew what she was doing, you and your wife would be strictly following the program for cooperation and agreement in parenting, and not using litigation or any other adversarial, child-harming method of dispute resolution. According to best practices nation-wide, the GAL should be fighting tooth and nail to secure orders for inter-parent communication and mediation, and to prevent any/all litigation, and would be fighting tooth and nail for the child, putting everything on the line to ensure inter-parent communication, mediation, cooperation and agreement. If she is not following these best practices, you must report her to the bar of each state in which she is licensed. You owe this not just to your child, but to every child this person is harming and torturing.

knoxville

September 13, 2016 at 8:20 pm

if only you knew, im the client in a case, a male, and have only had accusations brought against me, the GAL has complained about being paid with motions to the court...which were denied...however, she punishes me or whomever when people dont mediate (this case is non-mediating since im definitly not surrendering my superior rights...)....a nightmare

concerned dad

September 16, 2016 at 6:38 am

USE these "GALS" names! We as a community must make everyone of these worthless GALS names known to all. Write formal complaints to the appropriate agencies. The universe and karma will eventually catch up with them.

Joe Smith

September 16, 2016 at 11:41 pm

Concerned dad, Just like you, I am choosing an obvious fake name on this blog to hide my identity. I will reveal when the time is right but still getting all my ducks in a row. Using their names is good advice but be cautious as you need to consider them as powerful as the judge. Because they are. Make sure you have a true understanding of the law. "Best interests of the child" is a phrase that continues to be abused and also is a lie. It is a constitutional right to be a parent no matter how bad you are at it. I don't agree with it but it's fact. If you are truely being done wrong and not just have a chip on your shoulder, hit them where it hurts. Filing a complaint will just add to the stack of papers growing on someone's desk. This is there business and livelihood.. You will notice the good ones have an online presence and the bad, have none. You can create the online presence for them via Yelp and create the forum they cannot control and make sure the masses have the info they need. Unfortunately this will probably be abused by those whose experience just did not go their way but right now there are not many options. I have plans for that in the future but have some homework to do fist. BeenVerified is also powerful to get some background on these individuals. I spent countless hours gathering my info and learned the GAL assigned does not meet the qualifications due to criminal history. Most people who use Facebook don't know how to use Facebook. I know more about my GAL than probably some of the GAL's closest friends. I see what motivates her base on her life experiences and is reflected in her work. If your GAL is a female and married, use Facebook to learn their maiden name. Do searches on both. Do your homework, understand the law the best you can, understand the system is flawed. Flawed systems have weeknesses. Find them and use them to your advantage. You will drive yourself insane trying to make logical sense of it all. This is a lucrative business. Check out the documentary Divorce Corp.

concerned mom

September 30, 2016 at 1:16 pm

I would like to speak to you if possible. I may have to deal with him for a pending case in Miami Co.

Jen

October 1, 2016 at 11:47 pm

The job of every GAL, were they trained, would be to 1. remain neutral between the parents (generally best for children); 2. encourage and advocate for inter-parent communication, mediation, cooperation and agreement; 3. zealously advocate for joint custody and equal treatment of the parents; and 4. go after any family lawyers, custody evaluators, family court judges or others who are taking sides between the parents, discouraging or obstructing mediation, or filing, orchestrating or entering tactical, ex parte protection orders.

Sharon

October 2, 2016 at 10:40 pm

My gurdian ad litem was appointed by the judge to determine timesharing and relocation. My ex witnesses lied for him which i can prove next month in trial .The gal said that I manipulated my kids to lie to cops about the violence my kids pass by my ex and his family. Can i prove that i didnt ,by lie detector or poligraph? Also gave my ex ultimate decision on education and health. And blamed me for the reason marriage broke.also stated that i am the discipline one and my ex husband is the friend figure and emotional support when i was with my kids as acstay home mom and he works late. My relocation offcourse denied for readon that i will not promote connection between the kids and the father . He didn't even look at all the research he asked me to do for relocate.he missed details about my ex actions that even principal of school claim is aggressive to staff. and so many other incidents he did that hurts kids. I find it all this strange . Is the fact that he paid gal not me influenced his decision. It felt from beginning that he is not nuetral by every report he submitted. Also my ex got 50 ,and in his timesharing i pick up the kids for him and stays with me till 6 pm when he finish work, he got exactly as he wanted by his needs, with no thinking on my needs too. What can i do about it ?

Dan

October 3, 2016 at 9:35 am

Sharon why are you complaining and talking about a "trial?" You and your ex got 50/50; both parents won, and your kids won that case. You were litigating child custody and the court actually treated you and the co-parent roughly equally. It sounds like the judge simply ignored the biased GAL, sheer luck for everyone concerned, when in times past, or times ahead, for no reason whatsoever, any given family court could or would have given you, Sharon, no custodial rights, and two hours of prohibitively expensive supervised visits once every two weeks (ultimately resulting in zero parenting time). This kind of routine in the family litigation industry enables family lawyers to get all the families' (both parents) assets in the war and drama that would follow this drastically unfair and unequal arrangement, but it is routine. Sharon you should definitely be advised to count your deep, precious blessings, and do not go to trial if there is any conceivable way to avoid this, even if you must agree to getting the kids 15% of the time (because a trial could easily result in you getting zero parenting time, no matter who you are or what your relationship is with the kids). Many family court judges are abusive, sadistic, malicious and/or corrupt, doing nothing but serving the interests of lawyers, GALs, custody evaluators, and others who profit off the conflict and extreme disparities that they get untrained, unskilled, biased, dim-witted or crooked family court judges to order, often through ex parte protection orders that are granted almost automatically in favor of the first parent to file, in most state and county courts. This is how they get your money. Awaken, beware.

Mike Morgan

November 3, 2016 at 3:41 pm

My girlfriend is going through a similar situation, she is involved in an adoption case, because of serve neglect and abuse the children were removed and from their mothers home and placed in the custody of the grandmother. The guardian ad litem has gone rouge and we feel that the judge in this case has also went rouge or corrupt. The guardian ad litem has clearly failed to do his responsibilities and duties recommended by the OSBA. We are dealing with the court system in Ohio, Muskingum County. Any information anyone has that could help us in this case would be very helpful and appreciated, Feel free to contact me

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 9, 2016 at 11:03 pm

Took 17 months but finally did it. All cases removed and under investigation by DSS. Unfortunately changes nothing for our case. The damage has already been done but we will keep fighting. Will sleep better knowing she can't do this to another child/children/family again. For those who are truly being done wrong, don't give up and don't allow yourself to be bullied. Stand your ground and do your homework. Do not sign an agreement based on fear if you know you are in the right. That was our mistake. Do not solely depend on your attorney. Some take on 30 - 100 cases at a time. DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT and stay organized. Remember, it is not about the "best interest of the children". It's about the constitutional right to be a parent no matter how bad at it you may be. To the others using the court's flaws to their advantage, ignore this message. You should get what you deserve. Emergency hearing next week. In front of the same judge who made his decision based on her affidavit then assigned to the temp order. Hoping he uses the opportunity to right a wrong.

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 10, 2016 at 12:47 am

I am the stepfather. A stepfather who also has two beautiful daughters of his own but loves his step-daughters just the same. Me and my ex are friends and so is my ex and my wife. My agenda is not to keep the biological father out. His agenda, however, is revenge on his ex and have the facts to back it up. He was a liar back then and continues to be one today. This is not accusation but fact and have proof to back it up. He did not follow the recommendations of councilors and even tried to cause conflict between me and my ex. We are truly a successful blended family. My girls love my wife and my wife's girls love me. We live in separate house holds because unselfishly we wanted the girls to drive the relationship. They are now planning our wedding and continue to hint we all should live together. My wife and I live 50 yards away from each other. Me, my wife and my ex all work together to raise all 4 girls. Held her in contempt for denying visitation and lost cause he admitted in court she was not denying visitation. This was three weeks ago. He has since fired his attorney and has hired one that lives in directly in the middle of me and my wife. Police have been called three times in the past month because his new attorney (I am assuming) advised him to do so. Her office is the same neighborhood we live in and I know for a fact he was sitting in her parking lot for 15 minutes prior to the visitation. Had a swagger about him that day and broke a promise he made to his daughters. "I will never force you to go". Swagger was lost when I said I would call them for him. Got police report and turns out he was calling them on me for disorderly conduct. Invited a sergeant to my home today and has been brought up to speed and is fully aware of the truth. One of my stepdaughters friends can no longer hang out because of all the police activity. Post proactive pics of himself and "pitty me" MIMES on FB. Down now since one of his daughter's friends showed it her and she was humiliated. She asked me to take care of it and I did. Reactivated my FB account and demanded he take it down. Down 30 minutes later. I helped this man get back on his feet and allowed him to be my assistant coach when I coached soccer when we were neighbors. Took the shotgun away from him when he tried to commit suicide in front of entire family. Even invited him to my home last Halloween. Reached out numerous times to have a face to face and at least be civil even though I did not agree on how he lied his way back into the girls lives. I'm done trying. Regarding documentaton, here is an example: 7/22/14: RTSC filed against Defendant/Mother by Plaintiff/Father. Plaintiff/Father’s attorney and Plaintiff/Father hire GAL for consultation in accessing his compliance with previous order. 3/5/15 - 4/13/15: GAL has multiple consultations with Plaintiff/Father 4/13/15: GAL provides affidavit (as a GAL) in favor of Plaintiff/Father stating numerous incompetent councilor and herself are in agreement as to their concerns of what appears to be parent alienation. This in addition to other claims in her affidavit are inaccurate and/or false. Defendant/Mother and/or children are never interviewed during this process. 4/27/15: At RTSC, Judge rules in favor of Plaintiff/Father and immediate visitation, 48 hours later will begin. An individual who other councilors involved advised Defendant/Mother to protect her children from. 1. A decision based on GAL’s affidavit. 2. Judge assigns GAL to this temporary order. 3. My wife will be threatened with Parent Alienation anytime shenquestions/challenges reunification process. 4. During the one and only interview (after RTSC hearing) with Defendant/Mother, GAL refers to her affidavit as a “business transaction” and is now wearing a different hat. To little girls were behind this business transaction. GAL never… - Interviewed children - Met children other than the first visitation which was 48 hours after judge made his decision. Spent 20 minutes at Plaintiff/Father’s with girls while they opened gifts. - Visited school - Visited Defendant/Mother’s home - Visited Plaintiff/Father’s home after initial visit GAL did… - Continue consultations with Plaintiff/Father. Not once with my wife - Repeatedly threatened Defendant/Mother via email and voicemail with court orders and contempt charges - Recommends a counselor for co-parenting who violated ethical codes of the American Psychological Association (which he is a member of) by having individual sessions with Plaintiff/Father without Defendant/Mother’s knowledge. My wife would then be blind-sided during sessions. - Complicated “process” even when co-parenting sessions, in the court’s opinion, were heading in the right direction. - Made false allegations against me when I wanted to schedule a session with councilor, Plaintiff/Father and myself after Plaintiff/Father created tension with me and my ex. “As it relates to (my wife) new husband... I do not believe its in the childrens best interest for him to be involved in any aspect of coparenting with the girlsfather. I hope (my wife) is able to maintain strong boundaries with her husband as it relates to her and (my wife’s ex) girls. You have a very good and specific techniques that im sure are benifiting my wards and their parents. This technique has not been imbedded into stepdad and my knowledge of him has me comfortable in a solid statement that im not sure that it would help him much. He has attempted manipulation and control through direct and aggressive and even fraudulent attempts with not only me but other professionals. It is my recommendation that he is not to be allowed a say so in coparenting or an opportunity to manipulate any one on this case until he has engaged in individual therapy with you as well.” Facts regarding GAL’s claims 1. If manipulation means telling the truth. Then I’m guilty. 2. If aggressive is not tolerating threats from my wife’s ex. Then I’m guilty 3. Fraudulent refers to my counseling sessions with one of the three counselors assigned by the courts. She was incompetent. She claims I lied about my name. That is not accurate. I used my name. I did this as the councilor told my wife one thing and my wife’s ex another. Have proof to back all this up. 4. We learned her threats were truly threats. Three weeks prior to mediation, GAL leaves obnoxious VM threatening contempt if Defendant/Mother does not return her call by 5PM that day. Defendant/Mother emails GAL expressing she does not appreciate such voicemails. GAL is ignored moving forward and no such charges were ever filed. 5. Mediator was not fond of GAL 6. My wife did sign the mediation agreement due to the constant threats of parent alienation claims and possible 50/50 custody claims from GAL. That was a mistake by my wife and should have taken this to trial. However, she has followed the agreement fully. 7. Learn from previous lawyer, GAL was caught charging lawyer rates instead of lay by a different client. Client post negative review and she immedidately takes down her business FB page. GAL is solely responsible for all of this. Stay away from them all. They only make it more complicated.

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 10, 2016 at 1:00 am

In addition to documentation. Educate yourself and use resources available. I can't take all the credit. Others involved as well. But here is some of my contributions. Guidelines for Guardians ad Litem for Children in Family Court http://www.scbar.org/public/files/docs/galbrochure.pdf § 20-7-1547 Qualifications (7) must not have been convicted of any crime listed in Chapter 3 of Title 16, Offenses Against the Person; in Chapter 15 of Title 16, Offenses Against Morality and Decency; in Chapter 25 of Title 16, Criminal Domestic Violence; in Article 3 of Chapter 53 of Title 44, Narcotics and Controlled Substances; or convicted of the crime of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, provided for in Section 16-17-490. Case Number: ****** • GAL • A County Magistrate • 2671 - Criminal Domestic Violence • Guilty Bench Trial • Section 16-25-20 (4) (i) the report of any criminal offense, bodily injury, or property damage to a law enforcement agency; Additional Hearings/Violations • The State of South Carolina vs GAL o 2671 - Domestic Violence • The State of South Carolina vs GAL o 0528 - Shoplifting • The State of South Carolina vs GAL o 0670 - Drawing and Uttering a Fraudulent Checks • A company vs GAL o Rule to Vacate Resources • Chapter 3 of Title 16 • Chapter 15 of Title 16 • Chapter 25 of Title 16 • CDR Codes She should never been aloud to be a GAL to begin with.

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 10, 2016 at 11:03 am

Almost comical now. Just got word that the GAL's receptionist who I also know everything about is now a GAL for the business owner who is currently under investigation. Why even have a qualifications doc if there is no validation?? I'm not finished with them yet. Accountability to follow. That is another fact. Attorney ready but focusing on the girls and what is truely "in their best interests" first.

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 10, 2016 at 11:19 am

Almost forgot. My wife will be served today as well. They are filing an emergency hearing. Can't wait to hear what his claim is this time. We will likely be heard the same day. I will let you know how it turns out.

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 10, 2016 at 11:52 am

I know I'm ranting now but here's a question I know no one can answer... If my wife denies visitation, which she never has. (Girls refuse to go because he abandoned them for two years and does not take the advise of the councilors. Plus my wife's ex texts you are a "villain" while the oldest was playing minecraft on her phone. That was back in June and they have not gone since) She is breaking the law. But here is another law (referring to item 1). Knowing what we know, what law do you break? SECTION 63-5-70. Unlawful conduct towards child. (A) It is unlawful for a person who has charge or custody of a child, or who is the parent or guardian of a child, or who is responsible for the welfare of a child as defined in Section 63-7-20 to: (1) place the child at unreasonable risk of harm affecting the child's life, physical or mental health, or safety; (2) do or cause to be done unlawfully or maliciously any bodily harm to the child so that the life or health of the child is endangered or likely to be endangered; or (3) wilfully abandon the child. (B) A person who violates subsection (A) is guilty of a felony and for each offense, upon conviction, must be fined in the discretion of the court or imprisoned not more than ten years, or both.

Tom Melograno

November 11, 2016 at 6:45 pm

So this is what it's going to be like. Walking Jax and yes notice biological father's truck in her parking lot. Ran into one of the girls' friend's father and were talking quite a bit. Then I see the attorney's car pass me once while he is still in the parking lot. Then a second time, then a third time. All while the biological father is still at her office. Hope they got whatever they needed. Got the police report today finally and he told the officer that the attorney told him to call. Disgrace but I have to give her the benefit of the doubt. He had me fooled for quite awhile too.

Tom Melograno aka Joe S.

November 12, 2016 at 4:44 pm

Must have switched gears. Wife has not been served yet. His FB is back up but deleted all the pity me MIMEs and half naked pics. Then blocked me. Like I don't have all the screen shots.

Tom Melograno

November 13, 2016 at 5:52 pm

Who is policing them?!? I'm tired of being the one discovering information. Found even more last night. I am by no means getting my jollies from this. I have a family to enjoy and bleed green. Could not even tell you what the Eagles are doing right now or who their QB is. I know those I speak of are reading this. And I know I will be accused of intimidation/aggressive behaviors and/or threats. Please challenge me on any of my claims! I will give you a sneak peak. Those who think they got me based on my past, yes I am fully aware of the felonies on my record and hope it's brought up. Although a mistake when I was a hothead, it will not supports your claims but strengthen mine. I know now I have too much to lose and learned my laptop carries more of a punch than my hands.

Tom Melograno

November 27, 2016 at 12:08 am

Round 2

michelle ammon

November 27, 2016 at 12:03 pm

Can my children be denied mail if i have mailed it to there gurdian or can the guardian read it and have to supply the contents East Liverpool, OH | Wednesday at 4:29pm I have been fighting a court battle for 4 yrs no i have completed every thing by cps and the judge... i had court yesterday and they were going to put me on supervised visits after 2 yrs of 9.4 i have not gottn n to n e trouble or n e thing.. the judge had put n writing i could not drink with n 24hrs of getting the children which i had not done when i stated i drank after the kids had left with in his guidelines he screamed and said why drink at all?? So i had walked out of the court denying to go back to step 1 supervised visit that started nearly 4 yrs ago.. - Read Less

Christina Norwood

January 23, 2017 at 11:57 pm

I wanted to know, is it unethical for a GAL not to do at least one visitation with the father and his 2 son's, after she told the courts she would be doing so. She also, never met with the boys or their father to talk about anything. She stopped "supervised" visitation which I was one of the supervisors, she told me she was stopping visitation and then told the courts to TPR because he failed to see the boys. She also told me, "I never wanted to give him visitation to begin with". She had her mind made up before she ever met the father. And, she told the courts she just "didn't have time to do a home visit on weekends." But she knew he would only have the boys everyother weekend. She also had her assistant give the father the name of the wrong drug test. Without singed paperwork in hand she sent him for the wrong test, he did pass. But because it was the wrong one and he did not have the money to pay for another one for several weeks because he was living on unemployment, she ask for the TPR. Then one judge put child support on "abeyance", one called it "suspended", DSS said he should have a modification, the judge never addressed it, child support was still on "hold", so because no child support had been paid until the judge ordered to start again, she ask for the TPR. The mother was in contempt of Court because she didn't bring the boys to the first visitation, but his first attorney did not file contempt charges. Then, his current wife made charges of CDV, burglary and breaking a order of protection that he new nothing about. All those were dropped, but before they were dropped, the judge gave him Joint Custody of his two daughters, 2 & 3 yrs old. All this makes no sense at all!! He filed an appeal, they denied it. He file with the Supreme Court, they denied in December. They're are lies, deceptions, set-ups, ethic violations, from the ex, the ex's mother, attorneys, judges that overturned other judges for NO good reason and a GAL that played the courts to the highest level she could!! This father needs help!! He has list his boys because of a unjust legal system and people who know how to play it!!! What does he do next. Oh, by the way, he was trying to pay child support and the Clerk of Court and DSS sent it back to him. There is a canceled check to prove it. Everything I have said, there is proof of. Please help with the direction to go next. He has less than two months if he has a 90 day time line to go Federal!!! Something is really bad wrong with all of this. You may call me at 864-903-4985. I have his POA, because he is broke at this point! He brought the action to begin with for visitation and a child support modification. Instead, they set him up to terminate his parental rights!! UNBELIEVABLE!!

DC parent

January 25, 2017 at 9:24 am

The solution to the GAL problem is fourfold. Each jurisdiction should: (a) have a law, or enact one, providing a legal presumption of joint physical and legal custody (see DC law, etc.), (b) by court rule, require an inter-parent communication plan be in place throughout the entirety of any minor child-related litigation (see Indiana rules of court), particularly cases between natural parents of minor children, (c) by court rule have mandatory mediation, essentially in place of litigation, at all stages of cases between biological parents of minor children (South Carolina is the only state where no exceptions to the use of mediation are fudged into the rules), (d) have regulations governing the use of 3d parties (parent coordinators, GALs, supervisors, experts, etc.)--i.e., greatly limiting their use in separation, divorce, custody and access cases, and imposing strict rules on the scope and duration of their activities, and on their authority. For example, any such appointees must have accredited training in family mediation and in following "neutrality protocol," if they are to be appointed in intra-family cases. The neutrality protocol and training would ensure such 3d parties do not make any contacts with, or send any reports to, the court, only to the parents). The scope of their work should be limited, in all child custody/access cases, to facilitating inter-parent communication, mediation, cooperation and agreement. All appointees should be required to remain neutral as between the parents, zealously neutral, and like mediators, not appear in or address the court. Without such common-sense court rules and protocol, 3d party appointees, left to their own devices, many/most of them will simply harm the children and parents, take sides, usurp the judicial role, escalate costs, conflict, etc.; it's human nature, and in lawyer/profit-driven family courts, human nature on steroids. Dana

Clarence Arnold

January 25, 2017 at 9:34 am

If a Guardian Ad Litem was informed by me as the full custodian that one of my children came to me after a supervised visit at the hospital with my other child that is in I.C.U. and told me that her mom told the child the other was dying, but the other child wasn't dying and its been 5 days straight and the G.A.L. has not even investigated it or even spoke to the child to confirm or investigate the child was told that by the mom in front of the visit supervisor at all what do I do? Also she asked the visit supervisor and said she believes the supervisor without talking to the child when the child is her client and she shouldn't call the child a liar. Please someone tell me something.

cassandra

January 25, 2017 at 11:27 am

Is there ever a circumstance to bring litigation against a GAL for "going rogue" and, if so, how to get around the limited immunity that most GALs enjoy an officer of the court?

Jill

March 13, 2017 at 4:03 pm

Hello, I am a now adult child who was removed from my mothers care and placed with my abusive father due to the recommendation of the GAL. My mother fled the abuse and had limited resources for court. My father hired the most highly regarded lawyer in the area. The GAL did not listen to me, my siblings or my mother and misrepresented many things in her report. My father was granted sole custody and i was subject again to the abuse that my mother was attempting to get me away from. I am wanting to bring a lawsuit up against the GAL for placing me back into the abusive environment where the abuse escalated. I have gone over her report and find a lot of falsified information and information that seems to be red flags of my fathers abusive history. Is it possible to sue a GAL?

Nick

March 29, 2017 at 12:37 am

Having a GAL is the worst mistake you can make in a case more often then not they will man hate and bash dad. They won't conduct any investigation and run up your legal fees through the roof, I don't know why attorneys recommend them to their clients. If the judge assigns one to your case try your best to spit the costs 50/50.

Lisa Turner

April 6, 2017 at 6:52 pm

I have a father that is a abusive alcoholic but somehow got away with temporary custody because of something fathers lawyer accused mother of.How can this happen when the GAL should have investigated the father and his home.Noone has questioned the mother at all No visits from GAL but he did managed to go to school and put in place where mother can't see child.Even though court has instructed them to seek therapy GAL is not making father do anything for this child.I feel is is causing more harm to this child allowing father to intimidate and coerce child.I would love to take this GAL to court and expose him.I am in process of speaking to a private investigator to see why he is so bias toward the mother.I want to charge the GAL with emotional abuse to this child.

Nick

April 6, 2017 at 7:09 pm

The GAL is unusually protected because they are a officer of the court. It's best to expose them before final disposition or hearing.

Doreen

April 6, 2017 at 7:54 pm

Lisa, Find out how many parents and children have been bankrupted or killed by the GAL in your case. Do the same with regard to the lawyers who proposed or appointed the GAL to your case. Get together with all of those families and form a defensive army.

Jill

April 10, 2017 at 12:32 pm

Are you a lawyer? If you figure out how to go about taking a GAL to court please let me know. I would like to hold the GAL accountable for poor investigation and returning me back to my abusive father and the emotinal abuse that she caused me

Penny Allen

April 28, 2017 at 10:35 am

Would you care to share the Courts location? You're not alone, we are looking for patterns in locations. We have a young man who has been harmed by a GAL who perjured himself. There is a audio recording which proves the perjury.. The investigation is showing possible corruption within the whole department and the Court administration. We are looking for other victims...To determine how deep the corruption might go and to band together to expose and hold them all accountable.

Penny Allen

April 28, 2017 at 11:49 am

Jurisdiction? GAL name? They are a public official and can expect no privacy. If they are corrupt the public needs to know. We can't stand up against enemies we don't know who they are.

Penny Allen

April 28, 2017 at 11:54 am

Can the GAL Committee refuse to provide the GAL's response to a formal grievance to the grievant party?

Gregory Forman

April 28, 2017 at 3:46 pm

What GAL Committee? There is no mechanism to monitor lay guardians. It's a flaw in the guardian ad litem system (and not the only one).

Heather

April 30, 2017 at 6:16 am

Hello there! I'm in Maine and at what I hope is the end of an 18 month trip through "Child welfare" hell. To make a long story short, CPS tortured me and my two children at the behest of their lying alcoholic and abusive father. Based on one piece of evidence he obtained illegally, that was years old CPS, and the GAL set aside consistent evidence of domestic abuse and alcoholism in order to crucify me...they gave sole custody to my ex in a heartbeat. Last fall the ex's new girlfriend got sick of his abuse (temporarily) and after nine months of supplying CPS with story after made up story to keep me in their spotlight she got angry at him and completely recanted much of the BS she had been feeding them. The eye or Mordor finally shifted to him and - guess what - they discovered he's a lying abusive alcoholic who had a flying monkey girlfriend lying for him and covering up his alcoholism. It took about three months for the fact that they had been lambasting me for months on a pack of lies to sink in but now the situation has completely reversed...except for the GAL. Early in this case this GAL disclosed to me an extensive history of pedophilia and said she felt her experiences with pedophilia were relevant to me. She has stated to me clearly domestic abuse is "irrelevant" and that the Ex's girlfriend's manipulation of the case is also "irrelevant" even though it is that which finally blew the doors open. She stopped barely short of calling me a pedophile, instead saying "Because I have had experience with my children being molested I do not believe you understand the ramifications of what you have done." That was close to a year ago...fast forward to now and this woman has done some things that are making DHHS look at her cross-eyed even though they won't tell me why. After the tectonic shift they required my ex to do a battery of things such as counseling, abusers treatment etc. He's done none of it. Yet after a month of trying to get this guy to agree to a PR&R, and after he finally did, she made a phone call to him saying she supports him, and then a phone call to me saying what she did and why its unfair TO HIM and wants it changed. I have this very bullying phone call recorded! Now is being called a pedophile and her 11th hour meddling tactics coupled with a phone recording of her clearly trying to manipulate me and the situation in favor of the father. She kept trying to guide me into agreeing with her statements, which I refused. This woman who justified taking my children from me upon a three year old illegally created recording, blew off alcoholic behavior that is months old. This is in Biddeford Maine.

Looking For Justice

May 2, 2017 at 12:32 pm

I am in the same situation. The GAL appointed to represent my child, only visited with us once and determined that it was "in the child's best interest" to make amends with the parent who is sexually abusing them. Is there NOTHING that can be done?

Looking For Justice

May 2, 2017 at 12:34 pm

Are you aware of other victims? We are residing in Pittsburgh, PA. I'm certain that there is something underhanded taking place in the court, leaving my child at risk for additional abuse.

Penny Allen

May 2, 2017 at 1:11 pm

This one is in Kitsap County Washington. There is at least one other victim whom I have talked to. I can tell you that the GAL works in the Juvenile Court Department with a co-worker who is married to a local police officer who has been caught (on video) in his patrol car out of his jurisdiction on the private property of the victims when they were not at home...on 3 separate occasions. Not sure how deep or high up the chain this goes but the juvenile folks sure drive fancy cars and live in pretty houses for public service workers? Any help information or advice is greatly appreciated.

Penny Allen

May 2, 2017 at 1:18 pm

Only advice I can give you is to record everything! Audio is easy on your cell phone, you can download great apps for free. Video...when you can. But the audio is actually best because it can be transcribed and entered into the file very easily. There can be no expectation of privacy on their part- as officers gathering information to relate to the court. The law regarding right to privacy in this circumstance is is on your side.

Looking For Justice

May 2, 2017 at 1:25 pm

I'm more than willing to record, but who could have ever imagined that the abuse of power and the judicial system was so rampant?

Penny Allen

May 2, 2017 at 1:48 pm

It's terribly frustrating. Especially for those who still believe the system will provide fairness and justice. Anyone who believes the Truth will prevail- is a fool. I know because I have been that fool. The legal system is in fact designed to destroy those whom it does not owe favor or those who do not have enough money to feed it. Even with recordings and photographs and eyewitnesses... in a court of law; Truth means nothing. BUT please don't give up! That's far worse. If you have evidence at least they are more careful about how quickly and how much of your soul they take- make sure they know you are not going to let them destroy the life of you and your child without a good fight. Record everything and guard the recordings by making several copies and disseminating them. Don't throw anything away. Things you think are irrelevant now might become important later.

Anita Kerstanski

May 2, 2017 at 2:57 pm

I have just finished a updated gal report. the court would not allow me to switch gals or have family services do the updated report. This man shows clear bias in both the first report and the updated. I have been the sole provider for my 3 daughters since trying to divorce for 2 years. He took everything their father said as the word of god. Even though he asked to see the psych eval we had done showing in the testing that he embellishes and lies to make himself look better. I provided documents proving these things of the 1st report done. again this updated one is none of my concerns were looked at but everything he says i have done or told to the kids were taken as truth. I now have trial may 23 and 24th. I was able to find previous gal reports hes done and all the ones i find he sides with the father except one updated he flipped and went with the mother. We both live with our parents at the moment but his mom and sister aremore than just helpful they are the parents out there and i brought that up and it was ignored. the guardian said both parties care and love there kids and are capable of raising them with parental supervision..... What kind of parent needs parental supervision and why is that ok with the GAL??? I need help on fighting it

Shae Michelle

May 18, 2017 at 1:22 pm

Illinois

Larry Boyd

May 23, 2017 at 2:20 pm

I have similar issues with the GAL being bias towards a narcissistic mother of my children. The court is Kenton county KY. I would love to partake in exposing the corrupt system.

Larry Boyd

May 23, 2017 at 2:21 pm

Please contact me so I can give my evidence of corruption in this system. For our childrens future we must not let this corruption stand.

EKspozKitsap

May 24, 2017 at 10:51 am

Everyone who reads this should be aware that the corruption does not stop at your Guardian Ad Litem. The Courts condone and encourage GALs to favor one party over another. My case has been closed for a while now. I filed a grievance against the GAL believing that because I retained custody despite the GAL misconduct the Court would not think I was just griping because I didn't like the outcome and would certainly admonish him. I had an audio recording which Proves the GAL perjured himself in his report. I offered the audio along with a certified transcript of the same attached to my grievance. Instead of admonishing the GAL.. the court shared my entire case file with every judge on the bench (I have a letter from one of the judges telling me she did this) This Judge wrote in her letter to me that all the judges agree they don't like the States GAL Grievance policy (which requires them to suspend the GAL) and they admit they don't have one of their own and they will be putting one in place as a result of my grievance. Now, I ask you. If the State requires a procedure and has established specific policies and a Court thinks they don't have to honor it...where can the people go to find justice? I am not done with this battle. I will continue to fight. The Courts themselves are not above the Law and will be held accountable. GALs can not perjure themselves. Judges cannot write their own Laws when the ones written don't suit their fancy. In the meantime, I advise everyone... RECORD ALL COMMUNICATION!! Tell the GAL you are Recording. Make sure they know they can not lie. Save yourself some hassle- keep them honest. Every cellphone has recording ability.. .you don't have to have money or anything special. Simply RECORD RECORD RECORD. It is what is saving me and my child.

EKspozKitsap

May 24, 2017 at 11:40 am

RECORD (cellphone recording download for free) every interaction with the GAL. You can tell him but you don't have to tell him you are recording if you dont want to- its still admissible.

EKspozKitsap

May 24, 2017 at 11:45 am

GAL cannot go to a school and block a parent from seeing their child. If this happened, get documentation, get a signed declaration about what he told the school... whatever you can get and file it along with a motion to have him removed from your case. A GAL does not have the authority to do such a thing. Evidence of this should have him removed from your case. These GALs seem to think they are gods..well, they are not. I am not an attorney, but you don't have to be to know that is an abuse of his (perceived) power.

EKspozKitsap

May 24, 2017 at 4:38 pm

I honestly believed the truth would prevail. It doesn't, not in a Courtroom. I learned the hard way. He who has the most money or the most (potential ) political influence will prevail regardless of the truth.

PJ

June 2, 2017 at 6:57 am

May I ask who your GAL was?

Tanya althoff

June 7, 2017 at 12:32 pm

My son and his current wife have two children and my son has joint Custody of my two older grandchildren with their mother pss services were ordered my two older grandchildren got placed in states custody to be living with their mother which is where I believe they should be, The judge appointed a guardian ad litem and she met with the children once she will not talk to anybody else in the family she will only talk to the caseworker only she has not had an interview with mom, dad, step mom, or me nobody. she's talked to the children for maybe 15 minutes each one time, supposedly my granddaughter said something to her that made her believe that I was emotionally harming them somehow, she won't say what it is but now she has restricted me from seeing my grandchildren they are very upset about it my grandson is showing major emotional issues now because of it they are very close to me and now she says I can't even see them, I can't even go to public place and watch his baseball games how can she do this ? what can I do ?

william zhao

July 11, 2017 at 8:16 am

I need the legal verbage to get a recording admitted. Please tell me how to do that. Thanks!

EKspozKitsap

July 11, 2017 at 10:12 am

I can try to help. I need to know the relationship of you and the person recorded. Where it was recorded and how it was recorded.

EKspozKitsap

July 11, 2017 at 10:17 am

Charles W. Stevenson Kitsap County Washington. My investigation has revealed JW as another that should not be trusted. It doesn't matter- everyone needs to record every time they talk to anyone who wants their kids. The corruption isn't just peppered; it is fully rooted and taking over the system everywhere in America. Apparently it pays well to be a corrupt child investigator.

william zhao

July 11, 2017 at 1:54 pm

Can I call you or email instead of posting that on the website? Thanks!

EKspozKitsap

July 11, 2017 at 2:46 pm

send the information to my email backyardswamp at g mail dot com

EKspozKitsap

July 11, 2017 at 9:11 pm

backyardswamp@gmail.com

EKspozKitsap

July 11, 2017 at 10:28 pm

If you want to send information about your evidence to email address backyardswamp at gmail dot com. We will take a look at it. Not to help you in your case, we can't do that, we aren't lawyers, but we would like to help spread the word by informing others and share ideas about their own cases and how to protect themselves.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 3:20 pm

Needing help in impeaching a GAL that's gone rogue and is siding with my abusive ex husband. She never observed me with the children and visited the father's residence the day before trial, over a month after I notified her of the horrendous condition of the father's residence. The case is in Shannon County, Missouri. There is only one lawyer in town and that is my ex husband's attorney. They gave him sole custody based on his lies about me. They've even gone as far as tampering with the psychological evaluation to skew the results that support his lies. My attorney from outside that county cannot (or is unwilling) to get a change of venue or impeach the judge or GAL. I don't know where to go from here and I'm becoming part of the statistic of fit parents who are losing custody due to hearsay.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 3:24 pm

My state is a one-party consent recording state. If I am the one doing the recording then, I consent and it should therefore be my legal right to do so. However, most attorneys and judges discourage recording without the other parties' consent because they don't know the laws themselves. So it's up to you to police them and just keep abiding by your rights.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 3:30 pm

Has anyone gone to appellate court? Please post how I can prepare as I'm on the last leg of the trial before the decision is finalized and I'm certain it will not go in my favor. It went from me having full custody during the school year and the father gets kids during summer to reversing that to me only having kids during the summer break and 10 days at Christmas. I moved back to the state to get more custody and they've taken all of my custody away and gave sole custody to the father. The GAL is allowing me to see the kids for 2 hours while supervised with the father without seeing the results of his psych eval. Should I write a letter to the GAL and ask her to observe me with the children or do a home study before the final decision? That way, the information for appeals is in the record and they can decide that the GAL acted improperly. My attorney is not going to follow the above advice of this article.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 3:35 pm

I thought my attorney recommended the GAL in this case but it was actually my ex's attorney who recommended her. Now she works for him and has taken away all my custody. It doesn't just happen to fathers.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 3:38 pm

Sounds familiar. The GAL interfered with the psych eval WHILE I WAS TAKING IT! She called the evaluator up and told all the lies my ex said about me and the evaluator wrote that down in her report. My ex is trying to make me look crazy and lose parental rights and the GAL, his attorney and judge have colluded to make it happen.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 3:48 pm

My case is in Missouri too. Shannon County--the most corrupt in the state. My police reports against the abusive father disappeared and the GAL recommended sole custody for him without the ex taking the psych eval. GAL called the evaluator while I was taking the exam and her notes were used in the report, which are lies told by my ex husband.

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 4:06 pm

How did your appeal go so far? Did you have to switch attorneys and did you get a change in venue of court location?

Mallnut

July 17, 2017 at 4:17 pm

When you call attention to domestic violence in a child custody case, a GAL is always assigned. Often one or both parties recommend or the judge appoints the GAL. And unfortunately in small towns, everyone knows each other and there is always bias.

Susan Fortner

July 19, 2017 at 7:15 pm

I am getting a divorce. My husband found out how much would have to be paid out for our children. So a Guardian was appointed, he said he wanted off the case because no Guardian was needed in a simple Case. Next thing I know a new Guardian was appointed. She was rude to me, ask me personal questions, and said "do you think your husband had a affair? I said yes, she ask her name. She started to put down her name then she tosses her pen and with a smile she says "he is not having a affair with her " I asked how do you know? She said she is my best friend. So she demands me to get meds, have drug test, she takes my daughter for NO reason. I had no idea why she was so mean to me. Guess what? She is my husbands girlfriends best friend! I guess that's a conflict you think?

Tom Melograno

July 22, 2017 at 9:53 am

Guess I did not fight hard enough and have to get louder. Now legally separated and in the family courts with the biological mother of my children. One may ask why a GAL that was removed still speaks to one of her ex-clients? Still bleed green and now pissed off!

Tom Melograno

July 22, 2017 at 10:09 am

Forgot to mention. We are getting a divorce because the attorney I mentioned months ago has called the mother of my step-daughters and said if we ever get back together, her client will have her daughters taken away. Sorry, but jail is not enough to stop me. I will just get louder the more pissed off I get. Not a quality I am proud but mind as well use it to my advantage.

Tom Melograno

July 22, 2017 at 10:13 am

Round 3, 4, 5 and 6

Tom Melograno

July 23, 2017 at 10:08 am

How To Order Court Transcripts in SC 1. When the attorney who thinks he/she won in your emergency hearing finally gets around to drawing up a court order, note the court reporter assigned to the hearing. 2. Go to the Clerks of Courts office in person and request the contact information of that court reporter. 3. Send your request for the transcripts via UPS and/or FedEx so you have a tracking number to confirm delivery since most still use a PO Box. Include your email in your request as some may contact you and expedite the process. They will inform you the cost of expedited transcripts based on the number of pages. 4. Send a money order and request UPS and/or FedEx to scan for you records. Send money order via UPS and/or FedEx to confirm delivery. 5. Inform the court reporter of your steps to ensure your transcripts are processed correctly and not being shared with those not intended. Like the opposing attorney. Yeah, that is right. 6. Court orders are final however are not always inline with the direction the judge gave during your hearing. Keeps everyone in the process honest since lying in family court is not frowned upon. Why I prefer criminal courts since it is fact based, no opinion. Example: I ordered my transcripts on Thursday morning and delivery was confirmed on Friday. The process takes 7 days via USPS. Fortunately my assigned court reporter understands technology and knows how to convert to a PDF doc and send via email. My expectations are that my transcripts will be in my inbox no later than 7/28/2017. Let's wait and see.

Alaxandria Von Hell

August 11, 2017 at 11:16 pm

Please contact me!!! I am in Washington state too. I recorded a GAL interview with my son and offered the transcript to the court AFTER the GAL perjured himself and and wrote a false report. The audio proved what he said was a lie. The Judge threw it out, accused me of a crime in recording the GAL. My case is on appeal and was already on appeal when this happened. I need to know how you got the evidence admitted. Momparrish2012@gmail.com

Alaxandria Von Hell

August 11, 2017 at 11:19 pm

a few seconds ago Please contact me!!! I am in Washington state too. I recorded a GAL interview with my son and offered the transcript to the court AFTER the GAL perjured himself and and wrote a false report. The audio proved what he said was a lie. The Judge threw it out, accused me of a crime in recording the GAL. My case is on appeal and was already on appeal when this happened. I need to know how you got the evidence admitted. Momparrish2012@gmail.com

Brandi Nicole Killingbeck

August 28, 2017 at 4:35 pm

My lawyer and I both believe the guardian ad litems report on my case was completely bias. I later found out that the guardian ad litem's daughter-in-law was my teacher in high school. But my lawyer is no longer on my case because she moved to a different state. Wouldn't this be conflict of interest and shouldn't the guardian have not taken my case?

Angela Dickinson

September 6, 2017 at 11:11 pm

Im in need of some understanding, there is a court-appointed gal in South Carolina family court. I Am pro se and the other party has a $20,000 lawyer. Ironically we had to take a parental fitness test we started February 2017. Well a lot of things happened and the official report was almost completely blank on my ex and rather terrible about me. The little bubble test I had showed i scored better than 98% of other parents while my ex had a 94% chance of neglect and abuse in a certain area of the test. Well I spent from April until August 2017 providing the gal with Missed information, police reports, etc. The fitness evaluator actually copied and pasted my ex's affidavit and called it true. The fitness evaluator's interpretation of Court implied I kidnapped my children. The GAL agreed with the report despite just a copy paste of affidavits and an incorrect knowledge of court documents despite her being a lawyer herself. Well I did enough digging and found out that the evaluator is a major Criminal from Pennsylvania. Just this week I was able to uncover she was embezzling money from the nonprofit organization up in North Charleston and more than likely pocketing are parental fitness test money I paid her. I used to be a nonprofit auditor and had to do an interview with the FBI two years ago in regards to a major fraud at a firehouse in Hollywood South Carolina. I believe she might have worried I was going to uncover her fraud and messed with me big time in April and May.. Well middle June I guess the organization found out her crimes and now she is on the Run. Despite all this the gal Sue Groff did not listen to me one time and now almost the entire trial is over yet the gal had so much information to acknowledge the fact that the reports were bogus. On top of that the gal promised verbally to look into my children's medical records on five or six occasions that I have the date but it was verbal. She never did this and always claimed her cap was to maxed out. This caused me to believe since January a suture was stuck in my son's testicle. I begged her to look into it and she said she would but never did. Last week I had to stay I'm going to call DSS on XYZ day if I don't get an answer. Well I found out my ex took my son to a different doctor and didn't tell anyone back in January. The only reason he did this was to mess with me. If the GAL investigated any medical abuse I alleged 6 months ago we would have known the kids' dad was hiding this out of cruelty. If the GAL knew the report was wrong, knew of unresloved medical issues but did nothing for six months can I use this to impeach her? Can I use this to sue in small claims for intentional infliction of emotional distress? Oh and in her letter about the fitness test she stated she needed xyz medical records but never followed through getting those records. My ex provided none. Now he's going to get child support from me since thr case hasnt moved in months.

I4MBrian

September 23, 2017 at 5:39 pm

Was there a recommendation from a therapist? Is there even a therapist?

I4MBrian

September 23, 2017 at 5:47 pm

I concur with EkspozKitsap. Generally a grievance complaint can be filed against the GAL. I don't believe there is a statute of limitations for that. As for lawsuits... there may be a statute of limitations that prevents you from suing. Either way, I would like to organize a group of former children who were abused by family courts. Essentially, what is happening to many children is what's called fraud upon the court. It's not legal and is quite evil. please email me at brian@integrity4maine.com

Incognito

October 27, 2017 at 7:51 am

Is it permissible for a GAL to divulge the persons on one sides witness list and their actual testimony? If not, please advise what can be done about this?

Zoey Smith

December 13, 2017 at 11:25 am

Hi. I am in a very similar situation and would like suggestions. I have records, emails, documents, etc that are being ignored and my concern is my young son. I am being told to not file grievance, BAR association for not providing billing detail, or the media until this completed. Any advice would be appreciated.

EKspozKitsap

December 13, 2017 at 12:29 pm

The one thing I regret more than anything else is waiting until my matter was closed to file a grievance. Once the matter is closed its difficult (impossible) to get anything out where the public can see it, and maybe help you. They will bury your grievance so deep.. .you won't know where to dig. I suggest you file a grievance asap for no other reason than to get it in Public Record. They don't want the public to know how bad it is. If you look at other comments you can find my contact info if you want more info about what I would not do. But number one is definitely file a complaint whjile your case is still open... get it where public can see. If the public can see it they cant bury it, then you might stand a chance. Let me know if I can do anything to help.

EKspozKitsap

December 13, 2017 at 12:31 pm

Record it. Its legal. Let them deal with your truth instead of you dealing with their lies.

Zoey Smith

December 13, 2017 at 1:55 pm

Hi. Can you please send me your email address so we can connect? Mine is zoey121317@gmail.com.

Judge Judy

December 27, 2017 at 9:56 am

yes we also are in a corrupt case here in Illinois feel free to email hippiehooper@yahoo.com with any HELP !!! This is killing me to see a child go threw HELL ????

Judge Judy

December 28, 2017 at 12:13 am

Illinois

Judge Judy

December 28, 2017 at 12:15 am

shae michelle what county I am in dupage

EKspozKitsap

January 10, 2018 at 12:05 pm

In doing some research; through FOIA requests, I've gathered some documents about investigative practices of some CASA volunteers involved in Dependency proceedings. There is some question about whether the following scenarios are generally accepted practice of CASA Volunteers and I would really appreciate any responses: 1) Would it be appropriate for a CASA volunteer to call 911 to report a parent driving without insurance- as child endangerment? This call might include providing information to dispatch about the current location they are driving and ask for a call back if they are able to "pick up" the parent for driving without insurance? 2) In the scenario of question #1: Would it be reasonable when reporting to 911 to inform them that the person they are reporting is in a dependency matter and identify the child by name in that matter? 3) Assuming #1 and #2 are acceptable practice- is it reasonable to make that call to 911 as the parent (and child) is leaving the courthouse just after having received their "reunification certificate" from the Judge? 4)When is the CASA volunteer considered 'dismissed' from the case? 5) Is it appropriate for a CASA volunteer to park on the street outside the family's home from time to time without an appointment and without contacting anyone at the home?

Farren

September 7, 2019 at 2:17 pm

Please contact me, this is going on right now with my children.

Angela

October 25, 2019 at 1:00 am

Hello everyone, wow amazing that I found this page, I have been through almost 2 years of hell, my 25 year old daughter told me she was raped by a gang member and I a single mother if 2 children was heartbroken, felt like such a failure that I was not home from work yet, and scared fir this affiliation to come after us, we scattered and I moved to my friends house until I had a nervous breakdown and ended up in the hospital, only at that time had I known my best friend so I thought was really playing me and had become my 15 year old daughters best friend and told my daughter this plan if She wants to pthe rave it was meant for family reasons

Blu

November 14, 2019 at 9:38 am

They know everything is false accusations but they don't investigate them at all. They other party works for the courts they favor them not even investigate none of the information that has no proof at all especially if the child is being coached by the party who works for the courts

Kevin

December 24, 2019 at 10:20 pm

As noted by several parents in April through July 2016 (see "older comments" link) Steven Ellis, a guardian in Kansas, is terrible. If he is suggested in your case, ask for somebody better, someone who does the job well, not as a hack, like Ellis. As the multiple comments indicate, Steven Ellis is mainly concerned with collecting a guardian fee. This is noted repeatedly. The comments also indicate the Ellis does inadequate investigation, ignores issues expressed by parents, provides no value, is not even handed, is busy with other jobs, favors mothers, allows one parent to alienate the other, and most significantly, is not concerned with the welfare of children. As one commentator wrote, Ellis "says what the judge wants him to say." (See comment by Ethical Dad on April 22, 2016.) Parents are advised to avoid this guardian.

Tracy

February 7, 2020 at 1:49 am

I have a corrupt GAL on my case currently, she has injured several single Mothers and damaged their children per her google reviews as well. I believe she also had works out of some other states as well. She’s already misrepresented the children’s facts, and is blatantly rogue and wants my children to go to an abusive Father where they were failing school and sexually active at 8 years old.

Tracy

February 7, 2020 at 2:05 am

How do I file a grievance against my GAL in Montana? I filed a motion to remove her and included her HORRIBLE reviews. The judge kept her and now she wants to hurt my children and my relationship with them and recommending they go to my abusive ex husband whom I have therapists notes stating they have been sexually harmed. She further stated that I have coached my children to say things about their Father than aren’t true. She is trying to force me to have the children in care with her colleague GAL with a counselor license. Help, she is trying to destroy my kids lives.

Shannon

February 14, 2020 at 11:07 pm

After a judge deems you fit and not a danger can a GAL just side with the ither parent and sign iff on supervised visitation without a court order for no reason?

Peter

July 22, 2020 at 4:03 pm

Unsure how many people will see this, but I am in the middle of a custody battle with foster parents. Key affiliates to this case all reside in the same city in a Large county and up against a lot. Unbiased reports from GAL are evident and a system that won’t look at facts and easily distracted by “drama” filled content induced by the opposing counsel. Everything is 100% clean on my record, just purchased a new home, same employer since this case started 5 years ago, still with the same person that was once girlfriend and now wife of a few years, and have new born together. With all this in place, the court and GAL are having difficulties in changing their image of me. Anyone can please feel free to reach out.

Peter

July 22, 2020 at 4:05 pm

Hope you get this as it was 2017 on your post, but if you want to know how “deep” a corrupted and aligned court system looks and what I am up against, please reach out anytime .

nope noway

May 12, 2021 at 5:22 am

Are you still fighting this fight? JW lied in court on the record stating her "facts" of police reports and ATF reports, I didnt speak up that day only because I knew I was getting my kids back 3 days later. the day after court I had a meeting with dcyf and she attended and brought it up again, at that point i told her she's either a lier or cant read. I had (still have) all the police reports, witness report, and ATF reports. She's not an attorney however told my son she was his laywer. there is so much more its absurd .

Dawnisha Carpenter

June 15, 2021 at 12:58 pm

We are having a major problem with our GAL our 9 year old is still having his genitals washed by his mother and grandfather after repeatedly being asked to stop. They admitted to the GAL that they do it and she asked them to stop also. Never followed up to see if they actually stopped. She came to our home once for 20 minutes charged us for 2 hours and has all these ungodly fees already that we never agreed to we are already in debt with our lawyer. We have asked her several times to follow up because they are still washing him and telling him to keep it a secret from us. She has never bothered to follow up even after numerous emails from us saying they are still doing it that our son even says so. The only communication we have with this lady is hey you have an outstanding balance several times a month and even after being told they are still doing this she never reported suspected abuse to DSS. We had to do it and they all said she should’ve been the one to report it not us. Please please please help us. We are desperate. This is weighing so heavy on our hearts. We don’t know what to do because our lawyer and the GAL are “friends” and she won’t change the GAL for us.

carla isenhoward

September 20, 2021 at 5:16 pm

i had a private action custody case in 2019. while waiting to get in to court to get temp custody of my teenage daughter from the grandmother, the grandmother sent my childs fathers boss to my home. i wasnt comfortable w my daughter being around the 32 yr old man, bnecause i had proof he was trying to get his ex wifes 15 yr old niece to meet him at motel, said he had plenty of weed as he sent naked photos of himself to this child. when he came tio my home, he took off w my daughter and i couldnt do anythingbuntil i saw a judge and got signature. i was awarded temp custody and was to get my daughter back from this man asap even if law enforcement was to be called. i had to bcallb law because when he found ihad temp order of custody, he went n took my daughter from softball pratice and took off w her. it then became a kidnapping charge. he was got 3 days later. when in court to be granted full custody, this man walked in my dfamily court hearing to be a third party intervener. he is no relation at all, proven by pics of him trying to get a 15 yr old in hotel to get hi and his criminal record was mind blwing.... would you believe the judge allowed himmto be part of the private action but at same tikme, my child taken in to emergency protective custody by dss. i was a victim of his kidnapping of my child, he should not been able to come near me if i was protected by law. i had to pay 250.00 an hour for appointed guardian by court. dss held myt bdaughter , put her in gtroup home but couldnt find anything on me... i was referred to take classes on my feelings. what a joke. before dss closed case ther GAL i had paid,couldnt be used because 365 day rule because dss held it up a year. after dss finally closed case i started another privateaction case and GAL appointed, she talked w me once my daughter once. i paid a $1000 for her and now she has quit the case. my vattorney doesnt have anyn advice forn me on getting money back or anything. its more to all this but this is a small summary... i just need help. the system has failed me and my daughter. and no one seems to know or care on what to do... the man who took my childn is currently behind bars for revocation of bond for kidnapping..... someone please help...advice , anythingb at this point would be helpful. this has been a nightmare for 2 and ahalf years..

Yvette

January 21, 2022 at 12:26 pm

Thu, Jan 20 at 9:55 AM Good Morning, I am writing to you because I am at a complete loss in how to help my son. Let me explain, my son River is blessed with Downe Syndrome and has had guardianship paperwork filed on him when he was 17 yrs. old in the Cumberland County Probate Court fraudulently. None of us on our side of the family were notified even though it is required by the probate court. I have filed paperwork to terminate the guardian he has now because of the dishonesty, Rivers lack of care, not to mention our side of the families visitation was severed over night over a tax situation. We have not seen River in almost 10 months, with no explanation from us. We are not allowed to call him, see him, or visit him. The saddest part about all of this is the guardian actually stated on the guardianship paper work that River is incompetent. River is not incompetent and DESERVES A VOICE like everyone else. I have contacted Disability Rights of Maine, Ombudsman, Civil Rights in Boston, Human Rights in Maine, The Maine Parent Federation, DHHS Adult Protective Services etc. None of these programs can help, it seems River falls in the cracks of Family Court and Adult Probate Court. I was actually told by the Judge that all the 18yrs. worth of documents from Family Court are not enforceable in Probate Court. The Judge refused any type of visitation saying I he did not even know if I had legal rights to him. River is not an object to have legal rights too, he is an 18 yr. old young man that deserves to make his own choices in life. Yet he is not allowed to make even the basic choices in life, the self-determination recommended is non-existent for him at this point. Ok, back to what the Judge said, it was not easy to understand how 18yrs. worth of documents mean absolutely nothing??? That said I filed an emergency hearing motion and a request for an attorney and was told by Michelle in probate in an email that these motions would be addressed during the hearing on Nov. 3rd, sadly they were not. The motions are being ignored by the judge. Michele one of the probate clerks advised that I needed to file something with the judge to get my motions dealt with. That said she will not tell what I need to file. I have had several meeting with attorneys to retain but none of them want the case. One attorney stated that Probate Judges were elected, so they answer to no one and that Probate Court is like the Wild West. Another attorney stated that she would not do a contested guardianship case in Probate court with "that Judge", I do not even know what that means and frankly it terrifies me. Several other Attorneys respectfully declined the case saying they were too busy, yet that was not the case before they heard the details. This is not just another case in court, this will determine Rivers future for the rest of his life. What you do not know is that his guardian now (his other mother) refused services from age 4-11. She was struggling with drug use in the home and refused to let anyone come into the home to help River. She also refused to take him for service outside the home. This has resulted in River being many years behind the average young adult's his age. River is non-verbal yet brilliant, he cannot even wipe his own butt. He would come to my (mamas) house every week with fecal matter in his underwear. He cannot even properly groom himself. I begged the school and his other mother for sign language classes (that I already started with River and was forced to stop by her) and hygiene assistance, I was ignored by all. I even prepared her taxes so River could get benefits, which he did get service because of the taxes I prepared for DHS. River is not allowed to have a communication board, a cell phone or access to an email out of his home or even at home now. This is done so he cannot tell anyone what is happening in his home. He was actually put in Spring Harbor and medicated while they went on vacation. Let me explain the Spring Harbor situation. River was bullied, abused, dragged, restrained, put in his room for hours, put to bed without dinner. This was so horrible that I was called over to assist dozens and dozens of times to break him and his other mother apart from each other because he started "fighting back". Please understand our side of the family did NOT have the physical issue's because we did not treat him the way they did, we did not abuse him, we gave him choices and a voice, so he thrives with us, Children that are bullied bully back, no one wanted to listen to us. River has a GAL now, which took an act of God to get. That said the GAL is not trained or has any experience with special needs young adults. That said apparently Rivers guardian now is spreading rumors that I am not his mother, that I was a paid surrogate, I have a drug problem and I have mental issues. What is so confusing is that she has accused me dong many things over the years but in all the court proceedings for the last 15 years there has never ever been any accusations like that. Unfortunately she is grasping for anything to justify her behavior and treatment towards River. I can prove all this with Rivers medical records and IEP's from his school but no one wants to see them or listen to me. The crazy part about that is the month before our visitation was completely severed I had River for almost half the month of April. Unfortunately because I am so passionate and emotional about getting River a VOICE and the assistance to bridge the gap from what he knows to what he will be able to do with the proper tools, I am constantly perceived as aggressive not assertive etc. River has a family support navigator waiting for him along with a peer support group. We were not even allowed to see or talk to River on Christmas or his 19th birthday, I cannot even imagine what he must be thinking, where did we all go, where is his Mama? (meaning me) We have a hearing coming up in appx.30 days in Probate Court and I desperately need an attorney, I do not have the legal tools, legal knowledge to ensure River gets a VOICE..... We have recently received the GAL report, he stated I was surrogate, I have no right to my son, he never even met with me or my son in our home. What he has done should punishable and include jail time. He has a duty to protect River yet admitted in court and in his report that he cannot understand or communicate with my son. Kind Regards, Yvette Marie Cote

Julie

March 19, 2023 at 4:57 pm

I am in Brunswick Maine and I am currently going through gal hell. Please will you get in touch with me? The report that the gal did was all based on lies my ex husband told her, including that she wrote while my husband was deployed with the Navy I would neglect my kids, my ex husband was never deployed with the Navy. She used no records, medical or otherwise to verify anything and only interviewed people that would back up my ex husbands lies. She didn't even ask my kids counselor what she felt would be in her best interest, or for any documents. She also diagnosed me with a mental illness and the gal only met me once over a zoom meeting for less than 30 minutes and has no degree in psychology. I am currently writing a complaint against the gal and I would really like to talk to you. Please will you get in touch with me? Thank you. I look forward to hearing from you.

Julie

March 19, 2023 at 5:30 pm

I am also in Cumberland County and going through a similar kind of hell. My daughter is autistic and a family has taken her from me and has applied for guardianship of her. Please contact me. We need to do something to stop this insanity here. I am currently writing out a complaint against the gal that was assigned to my daughters case. People need to hear what is happening. I look forward to hearing from you.

Beloved of God

April 21, 2023 at 11:08 pm

I was the third woman seeing a judge in Walla Walla County on the same day begging for her children. First two had full custody and a family member kidnapped the child. The judge assigned a GAL and gave limited supervised visitation to the competent and loving full custody mothers. My custody of the children was taken away on false allegations by my still current husband. Two years still not divorced and still under supervised visitation and kicked out of my house. Order suspending my access to our finances because of more false accusations. I didn't even have a speeding ticket before my husband hatched this plan to start over with a new girlfriend. Enough is Enough When two agree on earth God promises to do it. Lord Jesus Christ, Please allow justice and mercy and Your Commandments to reign again in the courts. Please have all counties put back in place their Biblical standard of the Ten Commandments within the Courthouse walla so there will be truth and justice for all. May the judges, GALs and court Administrative staff that don't want to obey the laws be removed Lord. May there be a great cleansing of our laws and court personnel so that once again the peace would return and evil would be punished. In Jesus Name and in the Power of Jesus Blood Amen Amen

Melissa Maestas

June 27, 2023 at 10:51 am

Please contact me 854-444-0776. I have done extensive research and am NOT an attorney but gained significant knowledge and believed in the system also. We all need to support each other and I have a long unbelievable journey to share that may help others. I have been through hell with a corrupt GAL and court who illegally took my daughter away from me based on NO evidence and gave custody to my abusive mentally Ill estranged mother on false allegations that I proved to be perjury 2 years ago. My child has been abused and neglected and traumatized for years now and I have fought with my husband to save her. The corruption is truly disgusting and shameful. I have personally injury attorneys waiting to take over once I can get the family case closed but nobody wants to listen, do their job or follow the law. The case is in Colleton County South Carolina. Happy to discuss with anyone or offer what assistance I am able to!

McKenzie Ander

October 3, 2024 at 8:12 pm

I agree that a GAL does not help the situation. Many times they are colluding behind the scenes. What is your experience when a GAL has lied, been unethical or colluded with other court professionals? The reason I ask is I have clear concrete evidence of the GAL working with a therapist and the opposing party for a predetermined outcome. I have emails that were subpoenaed from my children’s school. My ex and the GAL emailed the school principal and say that the children’s first therapy was the next day but as soon as the session is over there will be an emergency order that will reverse custody. Meaning they discussed this plan with the therapist PRIOR to my kids even seeing this therapist. Fortunately, something else happened and this pre-determined plan did not work out. This was because my ex’s computer was searched and what was found made a judge say- “this parent is not safe.” However we are still two years in awaiting going to trial. However I hate that this GAL is still in the case knowing what they tried to pull. I’d like him off the case all together. How does one bring this up in court to a judge?

Jodee

October 13, 2024 at 3:46 pm

In SoCal there is a secret society of attorneys and GAL’s that manipulate the Probate and Family Courts for their own self enrichment. They have operated with immunity for decades. In my mother’s fraudulent conservatorship orchestrated by corrupt attorneys, they got their crony GAL appointed to the case to stack the deck against our mom and us daughters fighting for her freedom. My question is, can we fight the corrupt colluding GAL on his fee request? The judge reduced his fees because of actions like not even meeting our mom for 6 months after he was appointed and started churning fees. Against the settlement agreement they wrote, they have all filed and appeal because the judge called them out, the attorneys for the for profit fiduciary and the GAL, and reduced their fees. The GAL is claiming immunity for all his bad actions. How could this be legal? Are there any laws I can use against him? I am in pro per and have been fighting this corrupt gang for over 5 years. Another corrupt GAL was used against my father as well in 2015. All these attorneys just change hats for the next case. For further information google OCProbateMafia.com Watch the video The Probate Mafia on that website.

MC

November 15, 2024 at 1:59 am

It is so. Very rich. Robert Rosen, speaking about the misconduct of guardian ad items. I would love for him to review and evaluate. Kaluchi VS kaluchi and what he did with his guardian. Adelaide items to assassinate the mother. I would love for him to speak to the family of Mary Camilla kaluchi and what he did. We would love to hear from Robert on that because he knows exactly what he did. And we all know it too, and it's all coming forward. Lovely Justice is Justice and it will come down to settle on those that have no Justice and who are corrupt.So I love for Robert Rosen to comment on what happened there.And what he did with those guardian Athletics and what he pushed there.We'd love to hear from him.We'd love it

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